Just dumped my GF over politics

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Its funny with a title like that for me to say honestly i don't really care THAT much about politics nor do i follow it closely

But i basically oppose racism, bigotry, homophobia etc. I believe in the golden rule, do onto others as you would have them do unto you. Basically be a good person.

I didn't vote for Trump, nor Hilary as i thought both were garbage.

Yet, since i defend against discrimination of white straight males i am no better than Trump or his "supporters" according to my now ex GF. Which in itself is funny, my stepdad is not racist in the least, but happens to be a straight white male Trump supporter...I myself disagree with his support of Trump, but it ends there. I don't attack his character simply based on that because in every day normal life he's a decent human.

Sam Harris like him or not ( i do like him) wrote an article about racial profiling which caused a bunch of controversy.

I tend to think he was using logic in his reasoning, but i can for sure see why people would have disagreed with him

https://www.samharris.org/blog/item/in-defense-of-profiling

BUT, in a fabebook group i am part of someone more or less said "Harris is a white privileged male and should shut his mouth"

To which i asked the person to specifically show me examples of Harris's racism, while at the same time asking why its okay to say you won't listen to someone simply due to the fact they are a "white male"

My girlfriend in typical sjw fashion jumped in to attack me (she does it often) while offering no insight or useful information. Basically calling me racist for sticking up for a white man.

It was the last straw for me, she literally got so triggered watching a Ben Shapiro Thug Life video (only about 30 seconds) that she left my house and drove home (she lives over an hour away from me and was supposed to stay the night)
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I enjoy debate, I'm stupid and wrong on a lot of shit, so...prove me wrong, don't fucking virtue signal when i was trying to have a real debate with someone who said something i found absurd.

She believes in white privilege but thinks it only applies to men....

I knew she had views like this prior to dating, but she had literally told me she was trying to be more open minded, which obviously was a lie.

Have any of you lost friends or relationships over political disagreement?

I don't care she disagreed with me on things, its that she adamantly attacked white men as if the only evil in the world was created by them.

I hate the left now like is this really what it has become? No logical disagreement or discussion? Just attacking white men and privilege wtf.

I disagree with Shapiro on a ton of shit, but i don't label him as a racist bigot because of that. ffs
 
Maybe should have posted in war room instead sorry, mods if you wish to transfer feel free. I've had a few already been a long week lol
 
You can't reason with extreme liberals.
 
Your right, don't worry. Your girlfriend is a cunt. If you get back with her, it might be weird between us now I've said that.
 
She sounds like a complete twat bro but that's the culture today. I'm in Canada ffs. I gotta pay this Filipino dude to tell people my opinions on stuff or I'll get deported back to UK
 
Fact, like you literally can't.
Wish her well, and move on. Break ups are never easy, and even splitting up with a completely incompatible partner hurts a little. Be thankful you nipped this in the bud.
 
Thanks for the support guys, i totally am open to dating someone i don't agree with on politics, but i can't date someone that is THAT extreme and unwilling to have an open mind or even listen to the opposing view.
 
Wish her well, and move on. Break ups are never easy, and even splitting up with a completely incompatible partner hurts a little. Be thankful you nipped this in the bud.
I don't wish her ill will, but it just can't work when we disagree on shit like this.
 
Yeah. You sound reasonable and her position seems irrational.

But then I am a cis gendered, white, privileged member of the patriarchy so I probably would say that.
 
Good call. Just know she's probably banging some black dude as you read this though.
 
I don't wish her ill will, but it just can't work when we disagree on shit like this.
She's definitely too passionate about it all. Any chance it was just a shit test, and you passed, and she apologetically returns?
 
Great job man. It sounds like insane has left the building.
 
Its funny with a title like that for me to say honestly i don't really care THAT much about politics nor do i follow it closely

But i basically oppose racism, bigotry, homophobia etc. I believe in the golden rule, do onto others as you would have them do unto you. Basically be a good person.

I didn't vote for Trump, nor Hilary as i thought both were garbage.

Yet, since i defend against discrimination of white straight males i am no better than Trump or his "supporters" according to my now ex GF. Which in itself is funny, my stepdad is not racist in the least, but happens to be a straight white male Trump supporter...I myself disagree with his support of Trump, but it ends there. I don't attack his character simply based on that because in every day normal life he's a decent human.

Sam Harris like him or not ( i do like him) wrote an article about racial profiling which caused a bunch of controversy.

I tend to think he was using logic in his reasoning, but i can for sure see why people would have disagreed with him

https://www.samharris.org/blog/item/in-defense-of-profiling

BUT, in a fabebook group i am part of someone more or less said "Harris is a white privileged male and should shut his mouth"

To which i asked the person to specifically show me examples of Harris's racism, while at the same time asking why its okay to say you won't listen to someone simply due to the fact they are a "white male"

My girlfriend in typical sjw fashion jumped in to attack me (she does it often) while offering no insight or useful information. Basically calling me racist for sticking up for a white man.

It was the last straw for me, she literally got so triggered watching a Ben Shapiro Thug Life video (only about 30 seconds) that she left my house and drove home (she lives over an hour away from me and was supposed to stay the night)
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I enjoy debate, I'm stupid and wrong on a lot of shit, so...prove me wrong, don't fucking virtue signal when i was trying to have a real debate with someone who said something i found absurd.

She believes in white privilege but thinks it only applies to men....

I knew she had views like this prior to dating, but she had literally told me she was trying to be more open minded, which obviously was a lie.

Have any of you lost friends or relationships over political disagreement?

I don't care she disagreed with me on things, its that she adamantly attacked white men as if the only evil in the world was created by them.

I hate the left now like is this really what it has become? No logical disagreement or discussion? Just attacking white men and privilege wtf.

I disagree with Shapiro on a ton of shit, but i don't label him as a racist bigot because of that. ffs

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Good call. Just know she's probably banging some black dude as you read this though.
She told me that's what she'd do if we broke up, whereas i prefer to be single, work and play video games and not worry about shit like that. I did care about her but she holds such irrational offensive opinions compared to me it just cant work. Or vise versa, i could posses the offensive views.
 
Fact, like you literally can't.

Nor with anyone with extreme views. IRL I try to adhere to the "bar" rule......no religion, no politics.

Both are so ingrained by the time we are adults reason doesn't matter.

Would I break up with a gal because of it? She would have to have other bad habits. Has she ever started a political argument with you in front of another person? That would be a deal breaker.

If she didn't undermine you in front of people and you are just butthurt about her politics maybe you are the sensitive one.
 
This new far left idea that white people don't get to have opinions is lunacy.


Ironic too, since that's the very definition of racism.
 
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