lol spare me the life advice.
We aren't the same, not even close... The only advantage I had was parents that wanted better of me, I grew up in this shit, I was around plenty of people that fell by the wayside for 1 of countless reasons. I don't know what to tell you on how to fix broken people, broken families, etc... You certainly can't just throw money at it any more than you can toss a quarter at a bum and expect to solve his ails.
The problem that exists in this conversation, is that you have some faint ideal you've conjured up while gazing at beautiful landscapes but you haven't got the slightest fucking idea what the reality is.
Excuses are not the answer, handouts are not the answer... this I can tell you from experience. And giving people excuses and targets to place blame similarly does NOTHING to solve what ails them.
Not everyone is going to be extravagantly rich, hell most people won't even know what any level of wealth smells like, but anyone with the desire and dedication to work hard can carve out a decent life, and they can stop the pattern of dysfunction and raise their own children, instilled with their own vigor. That very thing DOES happen... all the time, but it starts with the individual.
That's the reality.