I'm wondering if we are having a misunderstanding because you disagreed but then stated my point right here:
The reason we need marriage - laws in general to be honest is because our default state is bad... just like you said, it would be chaotic.
I realize I'm getting off topic so I don't...
Lol. There are so many strange lores. Folks can interpret religious text however they please.
Some of them believe that Esau (Jacob's twin brother from the Book of Genesis) was the first white man - he was described as red, hairy, and loved to hunt.
Meanwhile - Mormons believed that black...
Find a need people have.
Find a way to fulfill it.
Charge people.
Live a Dan Blizerian, Leonardo DiCaprio-esque lifestyle with lots of scantily clad women on fancy Yachts.
99% of people don't believe that. Folks just focus on the 1% (generous estimate) and say "people are so stupid/gullible nowadays!"
Lemme tell you... in the 90s, long before you could go on YouTube and get sucked into a conspiracy theory black hole about the illuminati, I'd be walking in the...
Historically and biologically speaking, most males didn't sire offspring in the first place... and that isn't limited to humans. Social animals (including us) tend to assemble into harems. Marriage is a great way of reducing false or unknown paternity, aggregating resources and focusing care to...
You're being sarcastic in your response, but if anything that is closer to the truth.
The fact that our "nature" is problematic is the reason a man-made institution like marriage had to be created... to prevent (or at least try to prevent) the aforementioned scenario. The same reason we have...
OP, I think you are seeing a common theme here. No one here told you "you have to keep trying!"
I am not a pessimist (for the most part), but when everyone is saying something perhaps it is time to consider they may have a point.
No. Marriage & monogamy is unnatural (coming from a married man trying to be objective). Today it's a ridiculously high divorce rate, due to the enabling by institutional structures.
Before that it was misogynists beating their wives and banging their secretaries Mad Men style... before that...
And chose to have a kid with him... let alone 5!
Any silly girl can run around sleeping with bad boys or losers, letting one knock you up is a different story. You are making a lifelong connection to him... a willing one for whatever reason.
- Fun & Excitement
- Immaturity
- Low self-esteem
- Chasing validation
- Ignoring it due to sexual attraction to other qualities.
There are a plethora of reasons.
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