Dating Asian Women

[ClubFoot]

hm, never dated an Asian woman.
wonder what that's like.

I'll keep you updated.

 

[Graves The Elder]

thanks, bro

 

[RockstarChris]

Earlier in the year I broke up with my nutcase ex.

She was beautiful and rich but a fantasist nutjob.

Anyway, after 8 months being single I met a very well to do beautiful Chinese girl who has been living in the UK since she was 17 (came here for university and stayed).

I'm 6'2 and 18 stone, a gym bunny meat head and bearded.

She's 5' and 7 stone.

Anyway, we met out and about and we started talking and then decided to go for a drink together.

3 dates in and I asked her if she fancied dating properly.

She asked me 3 questions before agreeing.

A) Will I emotionally hurt her?

B) Am I a woman beater?

C) Am I a pedophile?

After I stopped laughing and said no to all 3, she agreed we could date.

Is this the norm of Asian women to ask such things?

Have I been out of the dating game so long these questions are the norm?

Or do I simply look like a woman beating pedo?

Don't answer the latter.

@koolinkunming

Is her name Cindy Huang?

 

[Hog-train]

Would not marry and make kids with an Asian though. I don't want half Asian kids, will only have kids with a Caucasian woman. I know some betas will cry racist..suck a dick if you're that upset. I am more attracted to white women and only see myself having white children. That means any European country, Russia, American...but I would simply never have a child with a woman who's from an Asian country, India, Africa etc.

Why though?

Eurasians are beautiful. Even when both parents are fugly, for some reason the kids tend to come out attractive.

 

[Andy Capp]

Maybe she's got some sort of terrible history. Possibly molested/beaten, cheated on. Could be anything.

Yeah Asian women generally tend to be clingy and jealous and want to spend all their time with you, even so far as no longer caring if they ever go out with their own friends. It’s just the way a lot of them are.

If you want “freedom” and space, you’re probably not going to get on with a lot of them. But if you want an extremely loyal and caring, affectionate and very horny woman, that’s what you’ll get. If not, you can always stick with the typical western woman who enjoys their space, independence, and lacks that sense of loyalty.

Amen sherbro.

 

[koolinkunming]

U mad bro?
Nah but seriously you sound deranged.

I am just describing what is real. There are a lot of hard working American women. In not a white knight.

I also know of a lot of lazy ditzy Asian women who are all about getting expensive purses and eating out.

I'm just throwing some balance into your mgtow American women suck Asian women are the best circle jerk.

This bold part in your post I will say is true, I’ll give you that much. My wife has 7 freaking somewhat high end purses that costed up to $400. I’m like wtf for? She spends her own money that she works for on them though, so all I can do is shake my head. It’s her money to do what she wants with. She pays some of our bills too as well though, so I can’t complain too much.

 

[Bob Weeks]

Lucky I have plenty of it then.

Which is embarrassing. I am embarrassed for you.

Single moms look for beta/cucks like you to foot their bills and raise their rug rats. You sir are a ATM to extract resources before she jump back on the cawk carousel some more. Not the first time. Not the last.

 

[Bob Weeks]

U mad bro?
Nah but seriously you sound deranged.

I am just describing what is real. There are a lot of hard working American women.

LMFAO @ HARD WORKING AMERICAN WOMEN.


If by hard working, you mean BULKING SEASON; you mean shoveling foot while on a see food diet, then, yes, American women are very hard working. Fat AS FUCKKKKK takes hard work.

In not a white knight.

White knights don't even want to be associated with you lulz

LMFAO... you are a cuck, a beta. You are the classic example of FRIEND ZONE. I don't think it is humanly possible to be more pathetic then you are.

Mad?

I also know of a lot of lazy ditzy Asian women who are all about getting expensive purses and eating out.

Eating out but, they are not on a AMERICAN WOMAN BULK CYCLE.

I'm just throwing some balance into your mgtow American women suck Asian women are the best circle jerk.

Your real problem:

STFU. The real men are talking. Go back to your bbc cuck porn, put on your helmet, and mouth guard before you hurt yourself.

 

[RoosterShooter]

Brothers do well with certain Asian women with a chocolate fetish. Go clubbing in the foreigner areas.

Hence why i say typically.

It happens but its really not often.

Filipino women sometimes give a bruv a chance

 

[Chesten_Hesten]

Of course, looking at with hindsight and having actually learnt something from others feedback and advice within this thread.

However when I've dated Caucasian women (some with kids) this was never brought up. Never mind so directly.

My wife is Chinese, (Beijing born)
Our first date, we ended up discussing, kids, (dont want any, we dont have any) her dislike for Japan as a people, and nation, (except they make great cars), and how she ended up in a re-education camp for 8 months after protesting at Tiananmen Square.

Chinese women are a down to business bunch. We've been hitched 15 yrs now.

 

[ObsoleteSoul]

True but let me clarify: Koreans are clingy to the point it's simply not healthy. Both men and women will get angry if their boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't constantly update them about their whereabouts or who they're with. Having friends of the opposite sex induces extreme jealousy. Having friends period sometimes does that. It even happens with purely platonic friendships a lot. Like your dude friends will ask you to grab dinner in a very clingy way and they get passive aggressive about their disappointment if you say you're busy or you don't text back a lot. Pretty common with Korean guys which is why I don't have a lot of Korean guy friends. I started hanging out with this one dude who I thought was cool but then when I talked about one of my best friends and he got jealous. I don't hang out with him anymore.

Sounds like hell, tbh.

Jealous people are the worst. It's not like you can stop people from fucking around if they choose to. You can watch them for 23 and a half hours, 7 days a week. If they want to step out, they will find 10 minutes out of the day for a bathroom quickie.

The only Asian girl I've dated was Korean, and thankfully, she didn't act like this. Maybe it's the American raised thing that helped her in this case.

 

[ClubFoot]

Which is embarrassing. I am embarrassed for you.

Single moms look for beta/cucks like you to foot their bills and raise their rug rats. You sir are a ATM to extract resources before she jump back on the cawk carousel some more. Not the first time. Not the last.

I wouldn't judge everyone from your own experiences.

She has a very good job and comes from a very well to do family.

Trust me, I've dated leeches in the past and I'm a better man for it. I could spot a leech if it came from Mars.

I understand where you're coming from, but this trait is shared of various women all over the world.

Plus, the older you get the more likely any woman will have children from a previous relationship. I am afraid that's life. The world isn't as perfect as you see it through inexperienced eyes when you are young.

 

[SmilinDesperado]

Earlier in the year I broke up with my nutcase ex.

She was beautiful and rich but a fantasist nutjob.

Anyway, after 8 months being single I met a very well to do beautiful Chinese girl who has been living in the UK since she was 17 (came here for university and stayed).

I'm 6'2 and 18 stone, a gym bunny meat head and bearded.

She's 5' and 7 stone.

Anyway, we met out and about and we started talking and then decided to go for a drink together.

3 dates in and I asked her if she fancied dating properly.

She asked me 3 questions before agreeing.

A) Will I emotionally hurt her?

B) Am I a woman beater?

C) Am I a pedophile?

After I stopped laughing and said no to all 3, she agreed we could date.

Is this the norm of Asian women to ask such things?

Have I been out of the dating game so long these questions are the norm?

Or do I simply look like a woman beating pedo?

Don't answer the latter.

@koolinkunming

 

[SmilinDesperado]

Ya'll know that 'asian' is a pretty wide category, right?
Japanese, Chinese, Koreans, Vietnamese, Thais, etc, etc have some pretty big differences in culture, which make them a lot different to date.
There are some things that overlap a bit, but I have had some wildly different experiences.
Koreans have been the most difficult girls ive ever dated.

 

[SmilinDesperado]

You have to be very wary with Asian girls because it seems many just want their token male from a Western country because it is a form of going up the social hierarchy. That is red flags right there. They may have great traits that white women for example don't have, but their negatives are notable and white women come with positive traits in other areas.
If you want to see evidence of it, just see how quick they throw their countrymen under the bus when it comes to the topic of dating and marriage etc.
Not all girls are of high social rank, most of whom are aiming to mingle with their own natives of high social rank.

"Many Asian girls"?
This is really dependent on the country. A Japanese girl, a Korean, a Thai, and a Filipino all have different views on this. Their reasons vary greatly for dating Westerners, and they go beyond looking for a "token", and even then, it isn't exactly like that.
There are also a lot of legit reasons why they do throw their native guys under the bus.
There are pluses and negatives to the males as well.

 

[Pugilistic]

Sounds like hell, tbh.

Jealous people are the worst. It's not like you can stop people from fucking around if they choose to. You can watch them for 23 and a half hours, 7 days a week. If they want to step out, they will find 10 minutes out of the day for a bathroom quickie.

The only Asian girl I've dated was Korean, and thankfully, she didn't act like this. Maybe it's the American raised thing that helped her in this case.

I think being overly jealous also pushes people to more likely cheat since they don't trust their partner anyway. Of course there are individual discrepancies but my Korean exes were far far more jealous than my American exes. My recent ex even questioned my sexuality because I didn't text her enough while I was hanging out with my best friend.

Ya'll know that 'asian' is a pretty wide category, right?
Japanese, Chinese, Koreans, Vietnamese, Thais, etc, etc have some pretty big differences in culture, which make them a lot different to date.
There are some things that overlap a bit, but I have had some wildly different experiences.
Koreans have been the most difficult girls ive ever dated.

I never dated any asians except Koreans, but yeah they are pretty difficult. I've never dated a Taiwanese girl but from from what I can see from the people I've met, they also seem very territorial. One Taiwanese dude I know doesn't let his girl meet her female friends if he's not there with her. Talk about a fucking beta.

I'd like to date a Japanese girl someday. I wonder if they are as jealous and controlling.

 

[SammyPops]

Cinese girls are reacist as fuck, even when they don't mean to be.

 

[steve38]

I've a limited perspective on "Asian Women'', but my Filipina wife has done her best to make a peaceful life for our family. She teaches, pursues her education goals, and tolerates my stupidity. Very respectable, IMO.

 

[zapataxiv]

Ya'll know that 'asian' is a pretty wide category, right?
Japanese, Chinese, Koreans, Vietnamese, Thais, etc, etc have some pretty big differences in culture, which make them a lot different to date.
There are some things that overlap a bit, but I have had some wildly different experiences.
Koreans have been the most difficult girls ive ever dated.

this is a good point. not even just for social justice reasons. Asia is he place with a large variety of cultures and a long history. So there is a lot of variety culturally. On top that you have to figure in different women personal values and personalities.

My wife is Chinese from east china in the greater shanghai region. Personally she's one of the most easy to get along with, and easy going people i have ever met, in addition to that she's hot. Her siblings (four sisters) are all very different but not what you would associate with traditional or with the asian girl stereotypes i have seen on this website. Really the stereotypes i have seen enforced are more to do with contemporary Chinese society.
So here a couple for you guys who want to try dating or marrying a Chinese girl.
1. Warm liquids, a lot of people believe that cold liquids are bad for you especially so if they are having their period, pregnant, etc..
2. men are men... sort of.. as the man you should be the more financially secure one, so you are expected to take of the woman by buying everything. The twist is the woman is the boss so actually most guys will give their partner their paycheck and then are given an allowance. My brother in law for example gets the equivalent of 100$ a month. Thankfully my wife does not follow these guidelines.
3. Intensity, a lot of people mention in here possesiveness relating to asian women. In china this trait appears mostly because there is a lot of pressure to be married by the time you are in your late 20's. Because of that most relationships in your mid twenties become very serious because every relationship you are looking for your future spouse. to take it to more extremes there is also the practice of marrying your university S.O., so even beginning in university relationships can take that serious bent. Because of that people can get pretty intense especially when families get involved.

 

[steve38]

this is a good point. not even just for social justice reasons. Asia is he place with a large variety of cultures and a long history. So there is a lot of variety culturally. On top that you have to figure in different women personal values and personalities.

My wife is Chinese from east china in the greater shanghai region. Personally she's one of the most easy to get along with, and easy going people i have ever met, in addition to that she's hot. Her siblings (four sisters) are all very different but not what you would associate with traditional or with the asian girl stereotypes i have seen on this website. Really the stereotypes i have seen enforced are more to do with contemporary Chinese society.
So here a couple for you guys who want to try dating or marrying a Chinese girl.
1. Warm liquids, a lot of people believe that cold liquids are bad for you especially so if they are having their period, pregnant, etc..
2. men are men... sort of.. as the man you should be the more financially secure one, so you are expected to take of the woman by buying everything. The twist is the woman is the boss so actually most guys will give their partner their paycheck and then are given an allowance. My brother in law for example gets the equivalent of 100$ a month. Thankfully my wife does not follow these guidelines.
3. Intensity, a lot of people mention in here possesiveness relating to asian women. In china this trait appears mostly because there is a lot of pressure to be married by the time you are in your late 20's. Because of that most relationships in your mid twenties become very serious because every relationship you are looking for your future spouse. to take it to more extremes there is also the practice of marrying your university S.O., so even beginning in university relationships can take that serious bent. Because of that people can get pretty intense especially when families get involved.

Pretty accurate, but from what I've seen, it seems like most Asian women who marry outside their race are looking to avoid these typical Asian behaviors in their relationships. One thing I will add is that Asians absolutely hate losing face, and divorce / separation is the ultimate failure for most of them. If you find one who is not just some bar whore and is actually involved in the community, she would probably rather die than be shamed with a failed marriage.