You're right in the sense that none of them give a fuck about us.
However, I'm not being partisan at all. You can objectively point out that some things are worse than others, which you seem to be incapable of doing.
You think that fucking gender identity issues are on an equal playing ground with blocking ballot initiatives simply because they knew they were going to lose.
Whether you agree with gender shit or not (I don't really give af either way myself), objectively speaking, by blocking ballot initiatives that people in your state clearly support, you are subverting the will of the people.
You are projecting your own partisan bullshit onto others who realize this. Just because Dems and Republicans are both dogshit, it doesn't mean that the dogshit is equal. One pile of shit can be bigger and stinkier than the other.
At this point, Republicans are forcing unpopular legislation down the throats of the vast majority of America. We see things like marijuana legalization and abortion right overwhelmingly win ballot initiatives in even of the deepest red states at this point, and you would rather cry about gender identity and vote for Republican stooges that flat out refuse to let you vote on an issue.