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Yup too many ass holes that are happy who needs a good those of bad Karma.there is too much depravity that happens in this world for me to believe there is any benevolent supernatural balancing of the scales.
especially down to the individual
Growing up in a Hindu household, Karma served as a fundamental tenant of my life. God's system of checks and balances, do good and good will follow etc.
As I got older and my belief in organized religion began to wain (and eventually disappeared), I still held on to the concept of Karma. While the rational side of me understands that there is little causality between one's actions, and being rewarded/punished in a future time period (beyond things that are obviously linked, i.e. cheating and divorce, crime and jail), I still can't shake the feeling that I'm wracking up cosmic brownie points or penalties.
I try and live a pretty decent life, but when I do something I know I shouldn't be doing (downloading a pirated movie, watching porn etc.), I try and "buy" my salvation by doing something charitable - normally donating money to a cause of some kind.
Even though I don't believe in religion, and my belief in God is best described as "tenuous", I still feel as though karma is a real thing - an unseen balancing force in the universe.
Anybody else have any thoughts on this? Even if it isn't real, Karma seems like a useful construct to help guide one's life - alternatively, I am a simpleton holding onto irrational religious belief beat into me as a child.
5 years ago I had a stroke. It had significant impact on my life. About a month before that I had done something really fucked up to my wife she did not deserve. I was 29 years old. I don't know if I would call it karma or not but I believe the universe has a way of making things right.
I had no problem accepting it. I believe it was me getting what I deserved. In a strange way I think it is the reason we are still married. If I hadn't had something fucked up happen to me she probably would left me. I need her waaaaay more than she needs me and she knows it.I know this may seem like a weird question, but did (possibly) attributing some part of the stroke to what you did to your wife make it easier to accept?
Oddly, one of the only things that has helped me through the end of my engagement is that a part of me feels as though I deserved that outcome based on past transgressions.
Not Buddhist nor have I read about it, but I can really respect and believe in this. As a matter of fact, i was telling this not too long ago to anyone who would listen because i saw it happening in my personal life. I probably looked like a wacko to the people listening.. but it was an overwhelming feeling that just came out of me, lol.Just finished a book on Buddhism. As I understand it, karma is the way your thoughts and actions affect your world around you or how you are affected by the reverberations of your thoughts and actions. For instance, if you are in a bad/negative mood, people around you recognise it and might feel worse or treat you in a different way than they would if you were in a positive mood.
It's not a 1 to 1 return on your actions... It's real because you affect your reality...
Not Buddhist nor have I read about it, but I can really respect and believe in this. As a matter of fact, i was telling this not too long ago to anyone who would listen because i saw it happening in my personal life. I probably looked like a wacko to the people listening.. but it was an overwhelming feeling that just came out of me, lol.
I remember my sister gave me a book called "The Magic of Believing" when I was a teenager (Claude Bristol). In all fairness, it is somewhat of a hokey self help book, but the underlying premise is that we shape the world around us subconciously by our actions and beliefs. Much to the points made in this thread, if you project positivity (verbally, through action, through body language etc), your interactions with others tend to be good, and self fulfilling to a degree. Conversely, you go out into the world with a chip on your shoulder, suddenly you encounter alot more jerks than your used to.
As to whether there is anything mystical or cosmic about it, probably not. But we tend to get back what we put out into the world (often, not always), and we have the ability to set ourself up for success or failure depending on our attitudes and belief in ones self.