Do you never feel like your obsession with sex is a detriment to your well being?

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  1. SugarKrok

    SugarKrok Green Belt

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    Sometimes I feel like it's a curse to see beauty in high any woman I pass by. I'd like to be able to walk down the street without feeling compelled to take a quick glance, or stare unabashedly, whilst a fine lady walks by. Nowadays, I feel like even basic interactions with chicks in the service industry are marred by my unquencheable desire to bed them. It's so tiresome. Is there any way out of this besides castration? Am I a sex addict?
     
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    Hatestorm P4P#1 Hottest Smelling Avatar

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    It certainly affects my wrist and the profile the government must have on me via my browsing history.
     
  3. Alphaboy

    Alphaboy Brown Belt

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    Checking out a girl? How's that a detriment to your well being.

    It's called being a guy. If this strong drive wasn't in our genetics you think we'd deal with women's b.s. or have babies? Nah, we'd go extinct millennia ago!
     
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    Patrick Jane Purple Belt

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    I don't have an obsession with sex, so nope.
     
  5. Hans Gercmiov

    Hans Gercmiov Steel Belt

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    Every time I see a new woman, my first thought is whether I'd fuck them or not. Been that way since I was a little boy. I cant ever remember not being that way.
     
  6. IAC

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    Thinking about sex every day is completely natural. Using sex to validate your worth is a problem though.
     
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  7. Vergilius

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    I teach highschool and college, so I'll just say that it would be nice to be able to turn that sex drive off. The legal age of consent in my country is 15, and the amount of hormones flying around a classroom in the summertime is insane.
     
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    Cubo de Sangre Steel Belt

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    It's unfortunately prevented me from learning Portuguese. :(
     
  9. LHWBelt

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    Did you think that way when you met relatives?
     
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  10. Leonard Haid

    Leonard Haid Minimalist Living the Illusory Dream

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    It's never been easy for guys in this way since guys first roamed the Earth. Join the club.
     
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    n...not crazy Red Belt

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    Yeah I don't know. It's hard to control, especially around unaware and pendulous cleavage. I don't know what to do either. MILF addiction is here to stay for me. Just don't stare, and try to be a swell guy.
     
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  12. drstrangelov

    drstrangelov Hey.

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    You should just have sex with every woman you meet over the next few weeks, it'll cure you.
     
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    Frank23 New York Belt Platinum Member

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    Take a shower

    Hit the weights

    Get a clue
     
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    badascan Pugnacious Audacious Moral Nihilist Platinum Member

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    Being conscious is the first step, secondly you have to recognize the things you want to have sex with aren't objects, unless they are objects. If they are objects then bang away, if they aren't then recognize their value beyond being a hole... if you're an 18 year old thinking this way, how it's dealt with and interpreted would be different than if you were a 39 year old... women are beautiful what can you say...
     
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    it's must be frustrating to never measure up, though.
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    I used to be like that too. I now see it as a form of slavery to desire and wish for so many things all day long. It used to make my heart ache to even see a beautiful woman. It is suffering to be that deep in desire. It is WAY worse when you get married or into a long term relationship and still do it. I am very glad I no longer am that way.
     
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  17. IReallyDoTrainUFC

    IReallyDoTrainUFC Double Yellow Card Double Yellow Card Yellow Card Banned

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    Refuse to think about women. They are evil. Stick to guys.
     
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  18. VitorReem

    VitorReem Geralt of Rivia

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    Yes my massive amounts of testosterone make me horny 24/7 & it can lead to irrational decisions.



    But that’s the price of being a mans man.
     
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    This is normal and it keeps the human race going, check those girls out OP.
     
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  20. moreorless87

    moreorless87 Listening In

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    Depends a lot of course how overriding that thought is, checking people out to some degree is I'd say pretty universal for both sexs but it doesn't mean its got to drive every interaction you have.
     
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