I was a defensive tactics instructor for 13 years. In that time, I trained four female officers. 3/4 girls had something…unusual happen during the training. The first girl ended up being my partner for a year. The other trainer and I were nervous training a female because we do a lot of guard and north/south positions. We were relieved when we saw she was a smaller girl, but when she took off her jacket, giant ass boobs came out. It was a serious struggle to keep them under wraps during the grappling. I got a few face fulls and when she couldn’t get me off of full mount, she full on grabbed my junk to get me off(of her).
The second girl when she had me in full Mount yelled “ride em cow girl” when she climbed on.
And the third girl, the first time i met her, it was a court day and a lot of officers were in hq surrounding her(hit blonde) and a red-headed officer walked into the room. She asked him if the “carpet matched the drapes” and he turned bright red. She then says “since I brought it up, no, my carpet does not match my drapes-i have what you would describe as hard wood for carpet” I thought maybe the rest of us had hard wood at that point as well. For training, she was told to wear bdu pants and she wore yoga pants. When I told another officer to get into her guard, he looked at me like I told him to grab a venemous snake. So I did it. During a break, she told me she was into older men. Then the other four guys grappled with her. On the next break, she sits by me and said “I noticed that all the other guys were wearing cups, why don’t you.” I didn’t even know what to say.
She ended up getting her older man and married one of the other trainers and they moved away.
The first girl, when we worked together for a while, we would all go out to dinner as a shift and have a party. On our last turn party of the year before we switched shifts, We went out to dinner and all got drunk. We then went into a store and she was telling me how she broke up with her boyfriend and then said the man she wanted was taken. She then leaned in for a kiss. I backed up quickly and then my wife walked in the aisle. It was so fucking awkward. My wife and I had a long talk and she said she saw me back away and all was good, but she said no more turn parties.