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it is if she's okay with it and ts shames her with it. Its lose lose for him, which is why he should avoid them and stay out.
so he should just tell her truth and no shame
it is if she's okay with it and ts shames her with it. Its lose lose for him, which is why he should avoid them and stay out.
At least i have integrity.
I’m not sure you understand the depth of what’s at stake for the couple in question. You drop that bomb on their relationship and walk away while they go through years of pain. The dude fucked up without a doubt, but did he do anything to you? Maybe he’s super remorseful and after she finds out he puts a bullet in his head leaving the kids without a Dad. Still think it was a good idea to “do the right thing”?
Her shame -- some people make compromises in life that they aren't comfortable ackwoledfing let alone discussing with neighbors, even friends.so he should just tell her truth and no shame
That does not answer the why question. Why stay with a known cheater. Cheating requires lies. Lots of lies, not just one lie. It requires the asshole piece of shit to lie repeatedly and frequently. In reality cheating is not just one mistake, one fuck up, it is a whole series of intentional betrayals and lies. Why take that back and work on that for a relationship?
I'd kill people before I'd even think of cheating on my wife. We've been together 22 years. Cheaters are pieces of shit. A lot of people just can't stay with one girl for a long time, and that's fine. Just don't get married and build a family then decide to cheat.
So you'd be cool with your wife or GF cheating on you?
This lady will probably find out and then blame you. You're in a lose-lose situation.
oh ok... something tells me you're trolling... but ill be entertained.No, I'm married and have a daughter. My daughter and their eldest daughter are semi close friends.
Do not ever tell anyone that some one is cheating. I have before, and it was top 5 worst decisions of my life.
What about the porn chick you are pineing over?
Nice way to ignore the massive chain of lies and betrayal involved.. No matter how you sugar coat it, it is not one lie, one betrayal. It is many. Lots of them.All of these people I referred to who obviously cheated on their wives, stayed married to them for 50 years or more. One took care of his wife the last 3 years of her life when she had dementia and didn't know who he was when she died at 79. I don't know if their spouses ever knew about their infidelity. They seemed happy and raised good families. Maybe if they had known, they would have split up.
I also know a man whose wife died of lung cancer in her 60s. She told him shortly before she died that she had cheated on him. What purpose did that serve? He lived another 20 years knowing that when he could have been happily ignorant of it.
My friend's wife was fucking someone else in my circle of friends. For some dumb reason I told the guy. Now no one is friends in the group anymore. Should have kept my mouth shut.Go on...
Only with women.
When I traveled all the time one of my ex’s used to bring chicks home.
Is normal.
My friend's wife was fucking someone else in my circle of friends. For some dumb reason I told the guy. Now no one is friends in the group anymore. Should have kept my mouth shut.
thats why i think this dude is either a troll or he has an agenda to try to get with the wife that was cheated on...So you are Married with kids and want to know if it’s ok to have a side piece relationship with a chick that did past porno but want to snitch this dude out?
In other words you want to fuck his wife, and think this will let you snap into that clam.
What’s gonna happen when your wife finds out and takes off with your kids and you only see them a day or two a month
Shit won’t be so cool then will it asshat
so what made you create that porno chick thread? was it curiosity... or better yet you're asking for a friend right...I'd kill people before I'd even think of cheating on my wife. We've been together 22 years. Cheaters are pieces of shit. A lot of people just can't stay with one girl for a long time, and that's fine. Just don't get married and build a family then decide to cheat.
That's hilarious that you say you don't know what's best for the kids then fucking act like lying to your friend is what's best for their kids. What a joke. That's the shit you wind up with when you try to justify shitty behavior.
That's so laughable. Nobody wants to be kept in the dark on their spouses cheating. And to pretend like there's some situation where they wouldn't want to know is silly. Everyone would want to know, and a real friend would tell them.
The only person who isn't a real friend in this situation is the cheater who tried to compromise the integrity of his other friend.
I'm sorry but you're just a bitch if you'd hide that from someone you call a friend. There's a million different situations and all of them point to you being a bitch for not saying anything.
You tell them, maintain your integrity and let them decide what's best
You’re coming across as pretty rustled.... maybe you still have emotional wounds left by an unfaithful partner?
besides that, you didn’t address what I said regarding not knowing what’s best for someone else or someone else’s kids.
Sounds like you didnt do enough to stop it in the first place. Plus if you tell the wife she would think the same thing. If your 'friend' meant so much to you, you would have knocked his ass on the floor to stop him.
If he has done it once he has probably done it plenty of times before so why get worked up about it. People are cunts so just focus on your own life.