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I'd rather be by myself.
Don't shit on me too hard.. legit asking advice
I was an athlete in college didn't know what to do when it was all over. I thought grad assistant would be a good idea, but coaching positions are scarce. I find myself in Kansas City (not a big city, but big for me) and the only people i know are married.
I workout everyday but I'm in an area that seems to be made up of townies that all know each other..
My work colleagues are either incredibly older or are a little older and are too goal driven to connect with
Yeah, the south is very split in terms of "bible thumpers", and those that tend to just follow the basic tenets, i.e., the Ten Commandments. The latter group tends to be the ones I'm talking about, they make up the majority imo.Interesting. I guess by faith/religion you mean various strands of Christianity? I can see how Christianity practiced with sincerity could go a long way to explain a kind, humanistic disposition but it can't be the whole explanation...? I mean, there are Christians everywhere in the Western world, including a lot of not so friendly ones. We have some die-hard Christian countries here in Europe, where people are...whatever is the opposite of warm, friendly and helpful.
I always figured it was the Southern accents - they are so great they just put you in a good mood and makes you want to be kind
The South does sound great though - maybe TS should move there instead of Kansas.
Makes sense. I'm not putting away my homemade theory that warm, friendly accents creates a warm, friendly atmosphere which again makes for warm, friendly personalities just yet, though.Yeah, the south is very split in terms of "bible thumpers", and those that tend to just follow the basic tenets, i.e., the Ten Commandments. The latter group tends to be the ones I'm talking about, they make up the majority imo.
If you are really desperate go to any number of 12 step programs like AA or NA. Those places are full of lonely people. Lots of free hugs and coffee, too. When they ask you what your addiction is just mumble and look away with downcast eyes.