I have a friend who I am moving cities to live with because she is completely alone friend wise and for the past week I've been down in her city job hunting, and I'll be heading back again in a day or two. Now this woman has a boyfriend who is an absolute fuckhead and continually hurts her emotionally, the other day I spent an hour holding her while she cried and it honestly was one of the most heartbreaking things I've dealt with in the past year. I've told her everything I can about why he's not good for her mental health but he keeps weaseling his way back in by having one good day where they don't fight.
Should I just let her learn her own mistakes because I don't want to tell her how to live her life.
Should I confront her boyfriend and tell him he needs to change or fuck off?
Disclaimer: I don't have any kind of intimate relationship with her and never have, she's just one of my closest friends.