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Fuck man, at 30 you feel like that? At 40 I don’t even feel like that lol.
However if my dick stopped working at 30 or any time for that matter, yes I might worry....
Today I woke up freakishly horny. Haven't been like this since June. Kind of an odd timing.
How come you didn't get any pussy before late 20s?
Lack of social intelligence, anxiety or overly fat?
Genuinly asking
Different reasons, two girls that I was infatuated/in love with turned out to be really horrible human beings. It was a accumulation of things but my main thing was, I would become FURIOUS when I saw the scumbags hook up with the women that I was attracted to, it was making enraged to some great levels.
Teenager aside, I tried clubs in my early 20s but to no avail and I wasn't in to it anyways. But this is the ultimate thing that made me stop trying. Two incidents that happened around age 22 and 24.
They were two girls that I was interested. First one I saw at the bus station, she would give the look and smile and I would smile back. Finally I went and talk to her after few days. Things went great and then just like that, I saw her and she wouldn't respond. As if I was talking to a stranger, this was on the bus and so, I didn't want people to notice this bizarre situation.
Second one went similar, except it was in an apartment and it took place in the laundry room. With the second one, she initiated the whole thing like the first but at least she found another guy who she was more attracted and that's that.
Funny thing is, a year later, I told my friends I was a virgin and they responded with "WTF!!!" and some of them didn't believe me. The reason is, I am in to many things like raw food, vegetarianism and I am told that I look good. Which in the end it doesn't matter to me since I actually never was able to do anything with the "looks" and so, everything good that happened was a merit of my own personality.
In conclusion, I have been told by many that I am a liar and that its impossible for a guy like me to be a virgin. This is what makes the whole thing weird.
Though I live Vancouver B.C and its infamous for people being miserable when it comes to romance and what have you.
Just curious..Did you have the opportunity to lose your virginity earlier in life? I mean what factored in to waiting so long to do the deed? Mad respect for even having the balls to post that cuz let's be honest most of us have an ego that would never allow for that.
I never had a real opportunity, the first girl that I was infatuated/in love was manipulative piece of work. She would hook up and get trained on by scumbag criminals and yet kept leading me on until I found out about her being in to getting passed around.
Also, during the MSN messenger days, I had a friend spy on my behalf in regards to what girls think of me and the response is. A nice looking chump that you can get free meals out of since I am the type of tool that offers to pay.
Instead of meditating try Jesus Christ. Christ is the savior of all mankind.
Yeah I actually was in the raw food scene and at the time I was interested in meditation. A girl told me the same thing and I was going to give it a try but her bat shit crazy nature manifested before she could get me in to her particular Christian style.
Evidence says you get happier as you get older too. In 20 years you won't care that your dick doesn't work, less sex drive can only make things easier imo.
I agree in some ways, I no longer get stiffed hard by a random hot chick. I just keep going about my business without getting nerve wrecked or wanting to talk to her or think about her. This is not to say because I feel I am not worthy but rather there is no drive or feeling of loss from not approaching.
Figured as much. You lost your virginity at the peak sexual age. It may not be in your teens but it still is in a male sexual prime range which means, you will have a nostalgic memory that will add in to your future intimacy moments.