Jesus effing Christ -- some of you guys sound like you've been smoking spliffs made from organic lentils and fail, rolled up in pages from Ms. magazine.
What's manly? Nothing's manly? Women can do all the manly things now?
Listen, platypuses lay eggs, but that doesn't make them fucking birds.
Manly = Being in control of yourself, always. Dominating other guys. Punching sharks. Not giving two shits what other people think. Telling it like it is. Civilizing yourself only to the point where you can hold a job and pull tail, and being prepared to throw off the mantle of civilization when circumstances require. Acknowledging and celebrating our shared heritage as the ones who fight and kill and die so that our women and children might live.
Not manly = Trying to win the approval of women all the time, for everything. Thinking manliness means acting like an unsupervised three-year-old. Worrying about other peoples' feelings when you haven't done anything wrong. Trying to get other people to handle your tough, boring, dangerous, time-consuming or otherwise unpleasant responsibilities.
If any of what I just wrote puzzles or offends you, read some Luke Cage: Hero for Hire comics while listening to Motorhead and eating a double bacon cheeseburger with a side order of malt liquor, stat.
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