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So why is it so hard to quit then?
More addictive than heroin?
Pussy makes heroin look like a brisk walk in the park on a warm sunny day.
So why is it so hard to quit then?
More addictive than heroin?
maybe but i feel like when people say that it kind of detracts from the way alot of people are. For me, I was never like that but I still had a bad experience, you know? it usually has to happen before people get jaded like that. I mean it would nice if all one had to do to avoid bad relationships would be to have a positive outlook but thats just not the way it is. It certainly doesnt help having a jaded outlook to the extreme but imo relationships are like a box of chocolates. you never know what you're gonna get lol. Hopefully you can see warning signs but then again people change over time and you'll only find out after you've given alot of time and energy you wish you hadnt.I wouldn't say anything specific but that they don't automatically show any great attachment to(or interest in) you.
Just seems that a lot of people get locked in a kind of self fulfilling prophecy to me, having a certain view of women that's likely to be comfirmed by the kind of women they go after.
maybe but i feel like when people say that it kind of detracts from the way alot of people are. For me, I was never like that but I still had a bad experience, you know? it usually has to happen before people get jaded like that. I mean it would nice if all one had to do to avoid bad relationships would be to have a positive outlook but thats just not the way it is. It certainly doesnt help having a jaded outlook to the extreme but imo relationships are like a box of chocolates. you never know what you're gonna get lol. Hopefully you can see warning signs but then again people change over time and you'll only find out after you've given alot of time and energy you wish you hadnt.
Sometimes people come off angry online when they arent really mean irl. Usually people who really are mean just don't care enough to be angry and do fucked up shit. Or maybe they were at one point a nice guy and at some point changed because of how they were treated. I don't know. I mean not every women is literally bad, but I think we do live in a culture with overarching issues. Things are constantly changing and sometimes not for the better. For example, I see alot of women on tinder saying they are "sugar babies" who seem to have no clue that what they are doing is prostitution. I even saw a girl on tinder who I knew irl as a friend of the family claiming to be a 23 year old " sugar baby" and she's actually 15.Yeah everyone has the potential for being treated badly yet I can't help but think a lot of these "red pill" style diatribes of all women we seem to get on here all too often tend to be self forfilling, the kind of "bad guy" chasing women probably being over represented at pickup spots just as the "bad girl" chasing men are likely to be.
I admit as well I'm cynical of the typical "I was a nice guy who got treated like crap" like when the same person is launching into a misogynistic rant(to be fare the OP doesn't seem to fall overtly into that unlike some posts we've had here), makes me question just how "nice" they actually are
I think that between men and women, women are more inherently evil.
How many women have kidnapped , raped , tortured and murdered people? How many women have stormed an elementary school and shot 20 1st graders in the face ?
Women can be mean as shit , and are surely capable of fantastic mental gymnastics , but men have got the cruelty / evil thing pretty sewn up , at least the kind that really matters. Fucking your best friend , as much as that must have sucked for you TS.....it doesnt really rate.
PS : If you are hanging with the kind of women that put Eminem of all people on a pedestal, maybe that's your problem.
And PLEASE don't gimme that confidence rap, that "WOMEN DON'T LOVE BAD MEN, THEY LOVE CONFIDENCE, YADA YADA YADA" Cause I've heard it a BILLION times!
Mothers kill their own children far more often than fathers do.
I'm saying it's not an easy thing to quantify.Mothers spend a metric fuck ton more time with there own children than men also.....no?
Do you wish to dispute that men are inherently more violent than women ?
So you are saying women don't purposely go after "bad boys"? Come on bro, we have all heard it from them before. Their is a reason the saying "nice guys finish last" exists, and that is because it is true. When it comes down who a woman Wants, with all the depth of her loins to have sex with, it is not a nice guy. They want to lay the bad boy..
Nice guys, are only worthy of occasionally touching them after their sexual prime, when it is time to do the mommy thing.
Woah....easy now ! TS has 20 k in the bank and a mortgaged 85 k crib ( just wait a sec he'll tell you ) . Quite certain , he's beating them off with a stick .
Martha
You dont think women are behind some of those wars as well? Do you think the wives and gf's of these men oblivious to what is going on? Trust me they have been in on it too.
True. Bad boys get them when they are hot but when they get droopy. fat and ugly they try to settle down with a nice guy. The thing is you did not want me when you were at your finest then I am damn sure not going to want you when you look like some hideous creature (yeah I am exaggerating a bit).
Not quite. I have a mortgaged 85K house with 17K on it already and over 20K in an investment firm with a S&P 500 index fund and over 8K in the bank. I am not accurately beating them off with a stick since that would earn me jail time but I am giving them teh jab and filling up the room with uppercuts, but I try not to land on them, its more for intimidation.