So basically I have this one training partner who was an ok wrestler in high school. He’s not very good at pure bjj yet but he is about 20 lbs bigger and stronger than me.
Everytime I have him in side control he turns into me, goes belly down, tripods, and stands up. From there it’s very hard to keep control for me, he basically just fights hands or granbys and escapes.
The only option I have to counter this is when I begin to feel him turning into me and giving up his back, I give him my leg and allow him to get half guard.
If anyone is unclear I can explain it better. But this is a no-gi with a lot of wrestling for mma context. So we are always just standing and scrambling up. I’m usually pretty good at top control but the extra 20lbs of weight and strength makes it a lot easier for him to get away with giving up his back and standing
Depends what you're good at. Maybe a simpler solution is to go to the front headlock and work that. Or,
use wrestling ride/truck.
So instead of getting the typical seatbelt , in one fluid motion:
1, turn to face his ass and put your weight on the small of his back. (Ribcage to small of back)
2, seat belt grip around his far leg, high in the crotch. (I actually use a kimura grip because they can roll into a triangle if you're not quick. The hand hooking the thigh converts to a post if they roll so you can keep your head clear of the triangle and go back to side control)
Once you have that weird high crotch, grapevine his leg and drag him down. Even if you have to put all your weight on his grapevined leg.
If he rolls, he rolls into the truck. Yay for you. You can now do banana splits or crotch rippers....or just take the back. If he falls back down to his knees, you can calf crank, pull him into the truck, roll over into the truck, or just transition to traditional seat belt grip with both hooks.
I love the truck as a back attack because it gives more options than standard back control. So anytime someone turtles, I'm going straight to the truck.
Just watch out for that rolling triangle and be ready for the roll.