Hey all thanks for the comments
Jaunty, no worries, and you can explain to me what a Jaunty point is?
daken & n00b - yes when I say I have "given up my dream" I don't mean it in a bad way. Things have just changed since I was 26, single, living in a town with a close knit boxing and mma club. Training all day and partying all weekend was my lifestyle, and I look back on my time with no regrets.
I am now 30, accumulated a few injuries, have a girlfriend which means I have less spare time, she is also not encouraging of me fighting (to put it mildly). I work longer hours and will soon be doing the marriage a baby thing (probably). I would have the skills for an amateur boxing match with a few months of training to get my cardio/conditioning up to standard, but I would need a lot more work to a thai or mma match.
So my life has changed quite a bit, and lifting 4 times weeks and competing in olly comps (probably one day powerlifting comps) suits me more.
I may get back into boxing or BJJ at some point in time, but not in the immediate future. At the moment my focus is on getting strong.