the best way to meet women, or men (if that's your thing), is to join clubs or groups who have similar interests. you already have something in common with the person, and you have all your questions answered after a five minute chat. or, do the regular things and go to coffee shops or bars. and of course, work. don't mean to try to get together with someone you work with directly. but someone that is within the facility of your work, and make small-talk. for whatever reason, it's easier to talk to women when you're at work, because you think to yourself, "we're only talking at work, it's completely normal". it's when you're out in public, that you may begin to feel nervous, because society has deemed it awkward and inappropriate if you try to game a chick in public.