What if you lost your interest in women?

I'm already there at times.
I just DGAF about chasing ass, the games, paying for shit most of the time. If I don't have to work too much for it, of course I'll grab it, but long gone are the days of the chase.
Sometimes I feel like i'd be completely content going up to Wu-dang mountain to train Shaolin or something.
Once you've banged enough, you realize that it isn't really that special of a thing.
I'm glad I figured this out BEFORE i knocked somebody up
 
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if i had a switch that would turn off my sex drive, i'd keep it in the off position
 
lol this reminds me of just earlier today. I was at my dentist appointment when this girl who was decently cute and sexy sat by herself across from me on the waiting room. I took a good look at her and within 10 seconds of profound thought I realized the following:

A few years back as soon as Id seen her I would have been imagining 100 scenarios of how to talk to her, approach her with some stupid excuse just to see if she would respond and we could sit together thinking in the back of my mind I dont care what happens I just want to bang her so bad.... well Im 40 nowadays and Im married, happily married, I could still try to approach her and honestly it would be A LOT easier nowadays because as a confident mature man I can just come and say HI and just ask any question to see if shes interested or not, I dont think Im a Romeo but Im in shape and honestly I think I have enough personal skills to just start a conversation very easily... but the truth is "I just didnt want to" I really am happy with my wife, honestly I think my wife is just as hot if not hotter than this girl and honestly I just didnt have the energy to start a conversation, listen to this girl to whatever dumb shit she would probably say... awwww, I sincerely just didnt have the patience or energy for it man.

So I realize yeah I really have lost my interest in "meeting women" with the intention of sex, I actually like to talk to people but talking to girls with the sole intention of trying to get in their pants, not really, too much BS in my life and like I said I think the fact that Im happily married has made me lose interest in it.... I see a lot of married men who still put the effort to try to flirt with girls to see "what happens" not me man, I guess I realize that today, not interested and not going to put any effort in it.
 
I often have this conversation with friends.

If I found myself suddenly unmarried, I don't think I'd bother again. Nothing serious with a woman for sure, would probably get escorts for when I want to blow my load.
 
then I'd be on Sherdog all the time.



wait a sec..
 
How would your life be different if one day you just suddenly lost interest in women altogether?

And no, I don't mean you're suddenly interested in dudes. I just mean if your desire to find a mate or get laid just went away?

You wouldn't be depressed because you can't miss something you don't want.

Imagine how much of your time and energy could be re-focused on your career, your goals, your fitness, your hobbies, your passions in life...

Unfortunately I am still interested in females but when I stop to think about how much more productive and less stressful my life would be without them I kinda wish I could just turn off that switch that makes me want them in my life at all, whether it's for companionship or even just sex.

I swear the MGTOW dudes gonna start going bar to bar like the Mormons going door to door.
 
would live the life of a hermit martial artist.
 
It'd be cool to just be a bachelor all your life and bang sluts while eating good food all the time. Some people just want that out of life.
 
Id be a lot more productive. thats for sure



for the record. a lack of sexual desire I usually a sign of low T. and is directly related to depression. were designed to fuck. if you don't want to do that, then you're broken
The same drives that make you wanna get laid are also the same drives that make you wanna conquer the world and take no prisoners. You'd end up just rotting away in depression
 
Almost at that point now. Women these days are unbearable and far too powerful.

I'll stick to pictures and videos, those can't passive-aggressively insult me or destroy my belongings. o_O
 
I'm 38 and already starting to feel that way. I'm glad my main goal in life isn't to get laid like it was in my 20s.

Besides, when you're trying too hard to get the pussy, it's gives women the upper hand.
 
The same drives that make you wanna get laid are also the same drives that make you wanna conquer the world and take no prisoners. You'd end up just rotting away in depression
Human core values:
Survival
Reproduction
Competition
Maternity


Every decision you make is based around one of these
 
It's called being aromantic, which is different from being asexual. I'm pretty much there myself. I don't feel romantic attraction like I used to.
 
You just described middle age, if your not there yet, you will be soon..if your lucky.

What age is middle age exactly?

lol this reminds me of just earlier today. I was at my dentist appointment when this girl who was decently cute and sexy sat by herself across from me on the waiting room. I took a good look at her and within 10 seconds of profound thought I realized the following:

A few years back as soon as Id seen her I would have been imagining 100 scenarios of how to talk to her, approach her with some stupid excuse just to see if she would respond and we could sit together thinking in the back of my mind I dont care what happens I just want to bang her so bad.... well Im 40 nowadays and Im married, happily married, I could still try to approach her and honestly it would be A LOT easier nowadays because as a confident mature man I can just come and say HI and just ask any question to see if shes interested or not, I dont think Im a Romeo but Im in shape and honestly I think I have enough personal skills to just start a conversation very easily... but the truth is "I just didnt want to" I really am happy with my wife, honestly I think my wife is just as hot if not hotter than this girl and honestly I just didnt have the energy to start a conversation, listen to this girl to whatever dumb shit she would probably say... awwww, I sincerely just didnt have the patience or energy for it man.

So I realize yeah I really have lost my interest in "meeting women" with the intention of sex, I actually like to talk to people but talking to girls with the sole intention of trying to get in their pants, not really, too much BS in my life and like I said I think the fact that Im happily married has made me lose interest in it.... I see a lot of married men who still put the effort to try to flirt with girls to see "what happens" not me man, I guess I realize that today, not interested and not going to put any effort in it.

Being happily married with a good sex life eliminates the desire to look elsewhere. In that case I don’t think it has much to do with age.
 
I'd sell my corvette and use the money to buy sweatpants.
 
I decided a few years back I would take a break from dating. After a while it just became the norm. I still think about banging chicks, of course. I just don't put in any effort to do so. I have accomplished exactly zero with my extra time. Just sayin'.
 
What if? Lol. I've been there since my divorce. Not worth the level of drama they come with.
 
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