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Anybody experience this?
I experienced this yesterday. I was in the grocery store, and saw this stunning woman. Long dark hair, medium height, tight waist with T&A ratio that could be in the New Sherdog Thick Girls Thread V1: Está Gruesa! thread. Just my type.
I was over by the bell peppers, and she walked up right next to me as I was tying up my bag. I put my peppers in my cart that was nearby, and went back to spark up a conversation. I started off with saying how all the peppers seemed soft, and she agreed.
I started looking through the peppers with her to find the right one. I was saying how the best ones were at the bottom since they try and put the older ones on top. I found one and offered it, but it was a yellow pepper and she wanted an orange one. We were totally up in each other's space, seemed to be comfortable, and had a seamless rapport, but the weird thing was that she never made eye contact.
Anyways, I took that as not having a high level of interest, and carried on with my shopping. I went down the rest of the aisle (checked the meats, picked up different cheeses, wraps), and swung back down the next aisle in the fruit section. I looked over, and she was still looking for an orange pepper.
So, anyways, I work my way through the fruit section and she comes down the aisle. First time I had a look at her face. She was beautiful. I was hoping she would make eye contact so I could ask her if she found the right one, but she didn't. In fact, I could feel her straining not to look.
What's up with that? I think she was single, because she had a basket and didn't have any problems being next to me. She wasn't turned off, at least I didn't sense that.
Help me to understand this, because I might see her again, and I want to get to know her.
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Update_23May18:
I figured it out sherbros!! I attract shy girls.
What's going on is that they are attracted to me, but their social anxiety is getting the better of them, so their actions do not align with how they actually feel, which is what I am sensing.
They put themselves in my orbit as an invitation for me to make the first move. I approach them to spark a conversation, but because they are not giving me clear signs of interest, I am taking that as mixed signals. I am not going to sweat someone if they are not interested.
Guys have a bias about women being more competent in social situations because we think that they are so used to getting approached, especially if they are hot, but the truth is that women fear being rejected by guys that they are interested in. So they clam up in the moment, and they end up beating themselves up after the moment.
Now I get it. Man, that shit was driving me nuts.
Anyways, I wanted to pass that knowledge on. I am going to buy a book on shyness so that I can get those types, because they are smoking hot. I swear to god. Real life unicorns.
I experienced this yesterday. I was in the grocery store, and saw this stunning woman. Long dark hair, medium height, tight waist with T&A ratio that could be in the New Sherdog Thick Girls Thread V1: Está Gruesa! thread. Just my type.
I was over by the bell peppers, and she walked up right next to me as I was tying up my bag. I put my peppers in my cart that was nearby, and went back to spark up a conversation. I started off with saying how all the peppers seemed soft, and she agreed.
I started looking through the peppers with her to find the right one. I was saying how the best ones were at the bottom since they try and put the older ones on top. I found one and offered it, but it was a yellow pepper and she wanted an orange one. We were totally up in each other's space, seemed to be comfortable, and had a seamless rapport, but the weird thing was that she never made eye contact.
Anyways, I took that as not having a high level of interest, and carried on with my shopping. I went down the rest of the aisle (checked the meats, picked up different cheeses, wraps), and swung back down the next aisle in the fruit section. I looked over, and she was still looking for an orange pepper.
So, anyways, I work my way through the fruit section and she comes down the aisle. First time I had a look at her face. She was beautiful. I was hoping she would make eye contact so I could ask her if she found the right one, but she didn't. In fact, I could feel her straining not to look.
What's up with that? I think she was single, because she had a basket and didn't have any problems being next to me. She wasn't turned off, at least I didn't sense that.
Help me to understand this, because I might see her again, and I want to get to know her.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Update_23May18:
I figured it out sherbros!! I attract shy girls.
What's going on is that they are attracted to me, but their social anxiety is getting the better of them, so their actions do not align with how they actually feel, which is what I am sensing.
They put themselves in my orbit as an invitation for me to make the first move. I approach them to spark a conversation, but because they are not giving me clear signs of interest, I am taking that as mixed signals. I am not going to sweat someone if they are not interested.
Guys have a bias about women being more competent in social situations because we think that they are so used to getting approached, especially if they are hot, but the truth is that women fear being rejected by guys that they are interested in. So they clam up in the moment, and they end up beating themselves up after the moment.
Now I get it. Man, that shit was driving me nuts.
Anyways, I wanted to pass that knowledge on. I am going to buy a book on shyness so that I can get those types, because they are smoking hot. I swear to god. Real life unicorns.
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