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/thread LOL gDoes that mean she gets to leave the kitchen?
/thread LOL gDoes that mean she gets to leave the kitchen?
The dutch are beta as fuck in 2018.
You don't do it because you're man who's committed to a relationship. Same goes for her.
as long as she is ok with you hanging out with a girl friend of yours. thought not.Would you be cool with your wife/gf hanging out with a guy friend?
If not, would you be cool with her hanging with a gay guy friend?
The "you can't come" would make things different. But if it's bc you are busy, at work, your Turn watching kids is something else.
Also what changes the equation is the actual relationship between everyone involved.
I've been friends, good friends with guys who I hang with but have also been hanging out with their wives since middle school and their wives have always been in the circle while the guys were accepted by the larger circle. Nobody cares if people are hanging out in any random pairing.
Again, best way I can describe it is using the show friends bc everyone has seen it. Or how about scrubs, you seriously think Turk would give even a fraction of a fuck if JD was hanging at the bar with Carla all night while he watched the game in peace at home?
Zero fucks man
lol Because you are a child.
No adult male talks like this. You're immature as fuck.
This stance only makes sense if you only look at women as things to stick your dick in.
An adult can control their desires. There's nothing "PC" or "white knight" about self control. If you can only think about fucking when you're with a girl that has a brain and an interesting life/story, then you're the one with the problem.
Legit lol'd. Come on, dude. There ain't no models, nurses, or lawyers in your trailer park.Yeah people can control their desires, but they frequently don't. The numbers speak for themselves despite your clear ignorance on the matter.
I guarantee that you don't hang out alone with other women and your wife would be ok with it. I also guarantee that if your wife is running around spending alone time with her male friends, she's getting her holes stuffed before coming home and kissing you.
But we both know you're single because you're lame as fuck. You can pretend like I'm immature all you want, but not having close friends of the opposite sex is pretty common in relationships where you don't let your significant other run all over you like a bitch.
But go ahead and talk that shit while I'm fucking models, nurses, lawyers and all of them are hot.
TBH I can’t relate to any of your examples. My wife and I have young kids and we both work. It’s really difficult for us to get time together out of the house with just the two of us. Free time is truely a luxury, and if she’s using it to have one-on-one time with another man, or I’m using it to find companionship with another woman, then I think we probably have some issues to discuss.
I also have friends like the ones you described. None of us seek out one-on-one time with each other’s wives, no matter how far back our friendships with their wives go. That just doesn’t happen.
Scrubs and Friends aren’t reality. The characters are designed to entertain an audience, not to serve as a model for healthy behavior in a marriage.
“Zero fucks” is an attitude I try to avoid in my marriage. I find my marriage functions at its best when I give a fuck, have standards, listen to my instincts if think there’s a problem, etc.
fk that noise. Women make themselves available for men they find themselves sexually attracted to. Women will not spend time alone after work with a non gay guy if he's the office creeper or butt ugly. Also, if you're not invited to tag along, that's a huge red flag. 1), the outting is a chance for her to take a break or get away from you. 2) She'll use the opportunity to dump on you to him, which provides him pivot points to spit some game. And since they are already alone, he wouldn't have to do much work anyway. Always bottom line a roasties scheme.
what about before marriage?This is all common sense that has not become so common these days. If you want your marriage to work that is where you invest the precious little time you have outside of work, kids, and such.
There are no male friends of married women who have not jerked off while fantasizing about that woman..... its just not meant to be that you have best friends with other sexes after marriage.
what about before marriage?
Yup. you can see the insecurities oozing out of the pours of the guys who have to loudly proclaim they would not allow it.There's a dutch saying "zoals de waard is vertrouwt hij zijn gasten"
You expect others to act like you act yourself.. if you don't trust her it's because you know you are untrustworthy yourself
Sometimes there are good reasons to be insecure though.Yup. you can see the insecurities oozing out of the pours of the guys who have to loudly proclaim they would not allow it.
They want to label anyone who disagrees as beta and yet they are the ones afraid and who need to trya nd take and hold control to feel secure.
Sometimes there are good reasons to be insecure though.
Sure. People cheat.Sometimes there are good reasons to be insecure though.