Would you be cool with your wife/gf hanging out with a guy friend?

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  1. fonzob1

    fonzob1 Red Belt

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    No. Fuck that.
     
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  2. Eazy123

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    Appreciate it. Fool me twice and all that, you dig.

    I still have the scars of leaving her kids but I rely on the fact that they know who their mom is and hope they forgive me for leaving.
     
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  3. Eazy123

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    Only condition is if she invited you along. If SHE says the dude is gay you only have half the story.

    You'll want to know for sure.
     
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  4. JC Komo

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    I'd nearly behead him and cut his dick off.
     
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  5. 90 50

    90 50 Red Belt

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    I tell her cool. I’m having lunch or a happy hour with a girl I know.

    She throws a god damn fit and says no. Tell her she can’t have her cake and eat it too , because she knows those bitches are lining up to be with a Chad. If you are a Manlet it doesn’t work. She says ok.
     
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  6. 90 50

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    He needs to blow one of my gay friends to prove he’s gay.

    I’ll tell her cool we’ll all go out and I’ll invite some of my single gay friends.

    If she faulters I fuck her younger sister
     
  7. EyeOfNewt

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    What do you think of girlfriends working in male-dominated workplace (eg. Law enforcement)? There are tight groups in these environments where people form relatively strong bonds between each other. Wouldn't it be weird for your girlfriend to be part of such group? It's hard to dismiss that there's nothing sexual at the back of their minds especially during after-work bonding activities like supper together and drinking.
     
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  8. Pugilistic

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    Yea sure. In my opinion you'd have to be in a modern society. You can't control people and if someone's going to cheat, they're going to cheat. You can stop her from meeting guy friends but she'll find a way to fuck someone else. Not to mention being jealous drives people away. You can't stop somebody from interacting with the opposite sex in a normal society.

    The caveat to this is that even if I trust my girlfriend, I don't trust the guy (especially if I don't know him) to respect that she has a boyfriend. I just tell my girlfriends that they can hang out with whomever they want but don't be surprised if guys who are supposed to be "friends" make attempts to cross that boundary.

    But I don't know. I'm somebody who respects the friendships I have with people so I don't cross the platonic line once I've established a friendship with a woman. I don't think about banging them and I pretty much treat them the same as my guy friends (and some of them don't like that). I know a lot guys don't though. I know guys who try to get close to a girl under the guise of friendship or even guys who try to make moves on their friends' girls.
     
  9. Which Doctor

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    If you are w/ a woman who wants to hang out w/ guys, you're w/ the wrong woman. Plain and Simple.
     
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  10. bad mojo

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    The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. There are people (males and females) with morals and integrity. But in everyday life, relationships have their highs and their lows. In those low moments, someone who hangs around might serve as a compensation for one's dissatisfaction or even boredom. Better to not test it. Especially in marriage. A wife or a husband should not be spending time alone with friends of opposite sex, because not everyone can establish and keep their boundaries.

    As we say in Serbia, "the devil doesn't toil or sweat, he awaits".
     
  11. Alphaboy

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    I think jobs like that the girls get harassed a lot and start becoming repulsed by male attention. Although you'll always have the occasional floozy who'd be willing to blow the whole squad, but you shouldn't be with a girl like that in the first place!
     
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  12. Alphaboy

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    I like this answer.
     
  13. EyeOfNewt

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    What about cheating emotionally? Is that even a real thing or some crap made up by men to justify their physical affairs? Some could argue that the 'floozy' doesn't need to blow the whole squad, she can get more satisfaction by engaging emotionally with a male colleague or friend.
     
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  14. Jimmy Jazz

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    I think it is real.
     
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  15. bad mojo

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    Thanks, man. Good thread and an interesting read.
     
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  16. Alphaboy

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    I think it is worse and women are more prone to it. Not that any form of cheating is better, but physical attraction is one thing, if one catches feelings for someone else, it is over. It's going to lead to sex eventually anyway.

    With that said, it's so weird to think about how human relationships work, we have to restrict enjoying another person's company in a way.
     
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  17. Jimmy Jazz

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    it used to be normal. its only recently that people are on this whole hanging out with members of the opposite sex as friends while in relationships thing.
     
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  18. EyeOfNewt

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    Looks like our ancestors may not have been that primitive afterall, and in many regards they are ahead of us right now
     
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  19. machidafan99

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    only if he were gay
     
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  20. EyeOfNewt

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    I wouldn't if I were you. There are people out there so fucked up that they would pretend to be gay to get their dick wet.
     

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