You meet a hoe - decide you like each other.
So - into the bed you get.
Boffing - perhaps once, perhaps several times.
On the basis of whether the boff is enjoyable, a resultant relationship may be determined.
Thus far in human evolution, it's been the other way.
Listen to their endless bullshit, jump through their endless hoops, keep your fingers crossed she doesn't want a fucking wedding ring before you can plow.
i.e. you are firmly nailed down before you even know or can confirm what the sex is like.
Is that right/wrong?