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Its not a overt want. It a subconscious or instinctual pull.Not sure I buy the 'women want to go find another guy while the one she had sex with just went to sleep' angle, and instead women tend to bond emotionally, but either way I think you are missing an entire half of the equation, which is the point of mating to begin with, and that is children.
Monogamy provides a stable unit to raise children and raises the success of the child. Women want that stability and having a 'nesting' instinct also and look for a man that can offer that.
Human babies are helpless and need a lot of focus for quite a long time relative to animals.
As i said prior, what nature does not want is for a fertile good gene woman to end up partnered with an impotent man and her being taken out of the pool. So it conspires to ensure she has the maximum chance to get pregnant with the best sperm.
And yes nature also wants the male to stick around and care for the child so luckily, going back not too long ago it was near impossible for her partner to know he was not the father and therefore she could still get that stable family.