I was referencing you pointing out the irony/hypocrisy of whites calling other whites that they disagree with names (ie, "abusing" them). "Soyboy" or whatever else. Meanwhile the same ones calling them those names are talking about whites being abused while doing it themselves. I made reference to blacks calling other blacks who disagree with them names as a comparison. Maybe they aren't "silencing" them, okay. They are certainly "abusing" them, if that's what name calling is.
Or is your contention maybe that there is a level of vitriol that exists with whites calling each other "soyboy" that's not there when blacks call each other "uncle Tom"?
I don't think there's anything hypocritical about about whites calling other whites names vs black people doing the same. That other poster was alleging that no one cares about abuse being thrown at white people. I said that he had a selective memory because whenever he or others call other white people soyboys or whatever, people express understanding at the abuse being directed at those white people and defend them against the abuse. That's not the irony, that's just his ignorance and selective memory.
Or, in mockery of him, maybe he didn't realize that the things he said were also abuse and so didn't realize that when people defend white people against him, they are defending white people from abuse. That's ironic - that he doesn't realize that he's the person doing the abuse and so he's blind to how white people are supported against him.
The other bit of irony is that he's making this allegation while referencing a book called "White Fragility". Complaining about a book called white fragility while demonstrating an extremely fragile ego on the matter.
I don't think the fact that black people have debated issues among themselves for a long time undermines this discussion at all. Currently, it absolutely feels like there's an expectation for black Americans to show that their views fall within a certain set of parameters. You have a wildly popular guy who happens to be the first black president in our country's history (and while a moderate, certainly not a conservative) being taken to task on social media for daring to say he wants police reform as opposed to police being defunded. Maybe it's more a byproduct of social media itself and the ease of getting opinions out there. Maybe I am out of touch, and 10 years ago he would have been treated the same way. But doesn't seem like it.
I'm going to completely disagree with you here. It feels like an expectation for black Americans to show that their views fall within a certain subset of parameters? Who does it feel like that to? Because Black Americans have been having this exact same debate for decades and, to my understanding, while black conservatives have always been the minority position, we've never felt compelled to show our views in limited parameters.
Everywhere that black Americans discuss these things, you have this exact same divide. We've been having this discussion in barber shops and bbq's forever. As I said in my prior post, it's white conservatives who insist that the debate ostracizes one group. But as I've said to you in previous posts, its because those people never cared what black Americans were doing or talking about. They didn't care what they said or did about violence until the part about police reached the national stage.
And they didn't care about the internal black debates on these issues until they started wanting more black votes at the national level. Now, every black person who agrees with them is a martyr to those people because they didn't know that those black positions have always existed and were always the minority position. Not ostracized but not new either. New to white people, not new to black people. But for white people who didn't know there were black conservatives, they treat them like an endangered species who need special protection when we don't.
As I say over and over again when it comes to black America - just because mainstream America wasn't paying attention doesn't mean something wasn't happening.
In many ways, social media has really highlighted just how much black culture, thought, politics, etc. was operating in the shadows and just how little mainstream white America paid attention to it.