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So, you can probably tell why I am asking this. Firstly, this girl and I have never been in a really serious relationship - we have been a couple for a year, but it has never felt as if we would progress onto anything more- anytime soon. It is quite hard to explain, we are not in an open relationship by any means; we have been exclusive to each other for the time we've been together.
However, things have been a little dry? boring? just average, I'd say. So, she requested that we try to see some other people for a month or two, and we will try again when we are happy. She was a virgin prior to our relationship, so she isn't looking for hook-ups. She did add, however, that she is open to both of us finding someone else to have a possible relationship with.
I fully intend to take advantage of this opportunity; although, I cannot deny that I have feelings for her that have only become more apparent over the past year. Do I want a break? not really. Will I still take this time to see others? absolutely. I am just wondering what will happen if we do meet someone, because she definitely would like to try again, just not now - and I feel exactly the same.
has it ever happened to you? How did it work out? Did you and your partner get back?
Edit: we are still in contact through this period, just not as a couple.
However, things have been a little dry? boring? just average, I'd say. So, she requested that we try to see some other people for a month or two, and we will try again when we are happy. She was a virgin prior to our relationship, so she isn't looking for hook-ups. She did add, however, that she is open to both of us finding someone else to have a possible relationship with.
I fully intend to take advantage of this opportunity; although, I cannot deny that I have feelings for her that have only become more apparent over the past year. Do I want a break? not really. Will I still take this time to see others? absolutely. I am just wondering what will happen if we do meet someone, because she definitely would like to try again, just not now - and I feel exactly the same.
has it ever happened to you? How did it work out? Did you and your partner get back?
Edit: we are still in contact through this period, just not as a couple.