Racial fetishization vs preference

[Slothbroth]

What is the difference? I've observed a double standard in a lot of women on this subject where they think it's ok for them to have a racial preference but they claim that it's creepy and disgusting 'fetishizing' when men do the exact same thing.

I was just on Reddit and women were talking about kinks saying how disgusting it is when a man has a racial preference. Then I read this post by some other lady and no one even called her out on it:

"Well just to get it out of the way, ima sucker for Latino/ Hispanic men. Love that caramel skin and if that luscious caramel skin covers some broad strong shoulders, I get wobbly. If those broad,or at least strong, shoulders have a pair of strong arms attached, then I get stuck on stupid. If they aren’t big, no problem, a little definition would be nice."

Why is it ok for women to objectify a man's physical appearance but guys are shamed for the same thing?

 

[Get To Da Choppa]

What is the difference? I've observed a double standard in a lot of women on this subject where they think it's ok for them to have a racial preference but they claim that it's creepy and disgusting 'fetishizing' when men do the exact same thing.

I was just on Reddit and women were talking about kinks saying how disgusting it is when a man has a racial preference. Then I read this post by some other lady and no one even called her out on it:

"Well just to get it out of the way, ima sucker for Latino/ Hispanic men. Love that caramel skin and if that luscious caramel skin covers some broad strong shoulders, I get wobbly. If those broad,or at least strong, shoulders have a pair of strong arms attached, then I get stuck on stupid. If they aren’t big, no problem, a little definition would be nice."

Why is it ok for women to objectify a man's physical appearance but guys are shamed for the same thing?

Double standards exists all the time in the dating world. It's best to just ignore the haters

 

[Cpt Migraine]

When you start caring about that the battle is lost..

 

[Ponchik]

I was just on Reddit

That's your first mistake. Reddit is the internet equivalent of the War room, fuck that place. Makes me think every human on the planet is a piece of shit.

 

[Pliny Pete]

Thought this was gonna be about interracial BBC cuckold gangbangs

 

[Slothbroth]

Thought this was gonna be about interracial BBC cuckold gangbangs

You're into that?

 

[Ponchik]

Double standards exists all the time in the dating world. It's best to just ignore the haters

She looks 12 years old, wtf does she know about men, finish your homework and go play with barbies you dumb cunt.

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

Who gives a shit about what they think?

If you like someone, you like someone. If you don't, you don't. It has nothing to do with anyone else.

 

[Slothbroth]

Who gives a shit about what they think?

If you like someone, you like someone. If you don't, you don't. It has nothing to do with anyone else.

I shouldn't give a shit but it really made me mad. I have a mixed kid. I think if everyone is consenting, people should be able to date whoever they want.

 

[Beau Wring]

I was just on Reddit and

would this be the same reddit that hit me with a ban hammer for posting a reply to a thread about quoting a line from a popular movie and letting other redditors try and guess the movie it came from?

''we have reviewed your appeal, but we still find your post to be hateful and upsetting to others, reddit is a community where people should feel safe''


and the famous line ?

 

[Scerpi]

Double standards exists all the time in the dating world. It's best to just ignore the haters

lol... Meninist was brutal. Wonder if that account got banned.

Also... LMAO at going to the toxic shithole of Reddit for opinions about anything.

I've dated black girls who won't date black guys and only like white guys.

I've met white girls who love white and black guys, but don't like hispanics.

I mean... I'm guessing most of Reddit believes that any guy who likes women are also obligated to be into a Trans women...

It's a weird place

 

[Goldentrophy]

I had this hot topic conversation at work about a year ago, a very progressive far-left chick claimed a white colleague of ours was fetishizing black people since she was nice/flirty to me and another black colleague but the lady who she claimed was fetishizing, her bf was white and her kids are white which shows to me she digs attractive men regardless of race.

Without going over a dictionary definition for me I take fetishization as a sexual conquest some examples "I need to nail an Arab broad, I haven't slept with one yet need to check that off my list" or "All the Asian porn I watch Asian chicks scream the loudest and they are generally small so it's easy to pick up and destroy so I need to bang some Asians" "Black girls have nice juicy lips perfect for head, I need a black chick to give me dome" "I need a black dude since they have a huge third leg etc"

I can conclude those as fetishizing

Preference
I deem more as "I'm black and every black chick I dated was a headache so I go for non-black girls" That is a preference although a personal anecdote shouldn't have you judge the whole race, it's his preference so be it.

It can be" I prefer girls with a voluptuous body type and since such and such race exhibits these and that is what turns me on I go for that race of girls.
PS none of these quotations are my experience they are just examples

 

[Scerpi]

would this be the same reddit that hit me with a ban hammer for posting a reply to a thread about quoting a line from a popular movie and letting other redditors try and guess the movie it came from?

''we have reviewed your appeal, but we still find your post to be hateful and upsetting to other, reddit is a place where people should feel safe''


and the famous line ?

Yeah... No shit. Reddit is a snowflake dumpster fire

 

[Travis Alexander]

I’m half black and half white. I have no interest (nor have I ever) in dating black girls. There isn’t anything wrong with it it just isn’t my thing. I like what I like and I have never had a problem being vocal about it. People have preferences.

I’ve always wanted more white girls than the first lifeboat off the titanic. That’s just how I get down.

 

[billiam]

The Reddit community is mostly comprised of women and limp wristed men so you have to take everything with a grain of salt.

 

[RoastBeast]

The people who say these types of things are the people who cannot think more than one step ahead.

If racial preference and racial fetishization are the same, then every preference must be a fetish. Every single attribute that you are attracted to is now a fetish.

The same types of people also say stupid shit like "I don't judge people". Judging people is how you figure out who you want to be friends with or who you want to date. No one just doesn't judge people at all but people claim it in online forums for virtue points.

It's like girls that claim they are sapiosexuals. Yeah I'm sure they are all out there dating autistic men that are 2/10 on the looks scale because they're intelligent.

 

[Ponchik]

But staying on topic, my only preference is that you have to be alive.

 

[Cpt Migraine]

I’m half black and half white. I have no interest (nor have I ever) in dating black girls. There isn’t anything wrong with it it just isn’t my thing. I like what I like and I have never had a problem being vocal about it. People have preferences.

I’ve always wanted more white girls than the first lifeboat off the titanic. That’s just how I get down.

I think you might see the day when this makes you racist.. enjoy sherbro..

 

[Spounman]

Double standards exists all the time in the dating world. It's best to just ignore the haters

 

[Slothbroth]

Asian chicks scream the loudest and they are generally small so it's easy to pick up and destroy so I need to bang some Asians" "Black girls have nice juice lips perfect for head I need a black chick to give me dome" "I need a black dude since they have huge third leg etc"

I can conclude those as fetishizing

Preference
I prefer girls with a voluptuous body type and since such and such race exhibits these and that is what turns me on I go for that race of girls.

This sounds like the same