I was dating/living with a girl for around 3 years when she pulled the plug. Then 2 weeks later she realized not using me like an ATM made life too hard and she crawled in bed with me (She was living in my guest bedroom in between). She basically said the money thing I just mentioned in so many words and then asked to reunite and so yeah we fucked and tried to reconcile.
Nothing changed to fix us and we broke up for good 5 months later. I guess I technically ended it as she was pissed at me and gave me a 3 day silent treatment, so I took all her stuff and moved it to the guest room while she was at work.
Then she was heartbroken and pissed. I had to share my house for another 5 weeks or so before she found a new place and room mate.
She wasted little time going on social media and doing things like simulating BJs with an ice cream cone to attract a new sugar daddy. I was embarrassed for her as she was a 4 year college grad and acting like this. (She never used her degree to a get a good job while with me, hence the ATM abuse.
I told her I was never dating again and 10 years later, I'm holding strong.
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Previous "long term" girlfriend I broke up with looked like Stiffler's mom but had great tits. She was nuts and I broke it off after her constant mental breakdowns attacking me finally out weighed having a hole to goo in.
She ended up pregnant by some rando 5 weeks or so after we split and popped out an autist, so she never married or anything again. And her pregnancy made her blow up like Roseanne 1988, so her tits were gonzo.
Women are fucking nuts. So many of my exes were sad and seemingly broken up by the break up but they find a new victim very quickly.
Somethings are learned about women: they are fucking nuts, they are in fact more logical in the sense that they see relationships for their transactional value, so they can be seemingly much more cold and ruthless, and their "love" for their man is dependent on their fear of losing what value you provided them.