I did it at 90 kg at the time after maybe 1 year myself.
I never see anyone deadlift though. I also never see anyone squat significant numbers and I've been part of at least 5 commercial gyms. I did see one dude rep 140 kg on squat which I thought was impressive as he didn't look like he juiced.
So I really question if I wouldn't have seen more people put up those kinds of lifts if people were really strong?
I've seen plenty of people bench more than 100 kg though.
I suppose to soothe my fragile ego I should just get some more numbers on my max. When can you say, good job man, you're not a weak pussy? 200 kg? 210? 220?