It is.... it's called the mayberry.There should be an entire section where Sherdog gives advice to those who seek our collective wisdom
These kinds of values are becoming a thing of the past
IMO it was worth it
I got married just before Christmas and am hoping to be divorced or annulled by the end of January. Obviously, that wasn’t the plan originally, but …
I never cared about getting married, but I wasn’t opposed to it. So when my boyfriend proposed in 2020, we decided to go for it. We each took on about half the responsibility for organizing the wedding, but I think I was pretty reasonable about compromise when he really wanted something. My only hard-and-fast rule was that he would not rub cake in my face at the reception.
Being a reasonable man who knows me well, he didn’t. Instead, he grabbed me by the back of the head and shoved my head down into it. It was planned since the cake was DESTROYED, and he had a bunch of cupcakes as backup.
I left. Next day I told him we were done. I am standing by that. The thing is that over the holidays EVERYONE has gotten together to tell me I should give him a second chance. That I am overreacting because of my issues (I am VERY claustrophobic after a car accident years ago, and I absolutely panicked at being shoved into a cake and held there). That I love him (even though right now I don’t feel that at all), he loves me, and that means not giving up at the first hurdle. I don’t want to, but everyone is so united and confident in their assurance I am making a terrible mistake that I wonder if they are right.
https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/01/dear-prudence-wedding-stunt-goodbye.html
Sounds extremely real.
wise manI can pretty much guarantee this chick doesn’t give head.
Guy sounds like a complete douche nozzle. If that's a true story, she's better off with out him.
IMO it was worth it
I got married just before Christmas and am hoping to be divorced or annulled by the end of January. Obviously, that wasn’t the plan originally, but …
I never cared about getting married, but I wasn’t opposed to it. So when my boyfriend proposed in 2020, we decided to go for it. We each took on about half the responsibility for organizing the wedding, but I think I was pretty reasonable about compromise when he really wanted something. My only hard-and-fast rule was that he would not rub cake in my face at the reception.
Being a reasonable man who knows me well, he didn’t. Instead, he grabbed me by the back of the head and shoved my head down into it. It was planned since the cake was DESTROYED, and he had a bunch of cupcakes as backup.
I left. Next day I told him we were done. I am standing by that. The thing is that over the holidays EVERYONE has gotten together to tell me I should give him a second chance. That I am overreacting because of my issues (I am VERY claustrophobic after a car accident years ago, and I absolutely panicked at being shoved into a cake and held there). That I love him (even though right now I don’t feel that at all), he loves me, and that means not giving up at the first hurdle. I don’t want to, but everyone is so united and confident in their assurance I am making a terrible mistake that I wonder if they are right.
https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/01/dear-prudence-wedding-stunt-goodbye.html
She asked for it not to be done. Forewarned him it was a deal breaker. So he goes beyond just mushing a small piece of cake (which is the usual traditional way), to full on face planting her into the cake.All the people saying he's literally Hitler, it's an old wedding tradition. Doesn't mean it's not stupid to do necessarily, but it's most likely not something he did just to piss her off.
that is the most ridiculous thing to complain about. Getting in a car crash and having your head put into a cake are like the opposite things. the biggest overreaction ever if real. People need to grow the fuck up.Guy sounds like a complete douche nozzle. If that's a true story, she's better off with out him.