Point to living past 30?

[deadshot138]

I'm 33 and can't say I've enjoyed a second of living beyond age 30. Fun no longer exists. Career paths narrow if not dissolve completely. Seems like you just tread water between here and death, fixing whatever breaks on the house next and putting the kids through college along the way. Car shits out, buy a new one. Parents get up and age and die. Health problems start settling in.. Correct me if I'm wrong. I'm not suicidal by any means, just puzzled by the banality of adulthood.

 

[Fox by the Sea]

in before the normies storm in to tell you about:
- family, kids
- sunsets and sunrises
- omg friends

 

[Misfit23]

You sound depressed.

 

[BisexualMMA]

Renew! Renew!

 

[DrVanNostrand]

i was really messed up at 30, a lot better at 40.. more acceptance of who i am
i've also recently met the best girl since i was 20
loss of muscle mass has been my biggest problem
but yeah a lot of what you say is true, and life

 

[Oceanmachine]

I'm 33 and can't say I've enjoyed a second of living beyond age 30. Fun no longer exists. Career paths narrow if not dissolve completely. Seems like you just tread water between here and death, fixing whatever breaks on the house next and putting the kids through college along the way. Car shits out, buy a new one. Parents get up and age and die. Health problems start settling in.. Correct me if I'm wrong. I'm not suicidal by any means, just puzzled by the banality of adulthood.

Sex?
To see kids grow up or have them?
Find an ideology

I can help you send me a private message I might have an idea what you need or helps

in before the normies storm in to tell you about:
- family, kids
- sunsets and sunrises
- omg friends

Lol true. I would lile but due to dubs I cannot

 

[TheTickG]

Why does fun no longer exist? That has not been my experience.

Adulthood is definitely difficult. No argument there.

But, life can still be very enjoyable. You need to be willing to update yourself and your view on life overtime.

 

[PolishHeadlock2]

Have you thought about getting a Plat account to spice things up?

 

[cincymma79]

Get out of debt and see if your outlook improves.Once you aren't working to pay bills you can do whatever you want. Find work that has meaning. Shit I have trouble finding time for everything. The only time I feel wasted is when I don't have enough time to do something between other things. Like I have only enough time to get a full sleep cycle in and maybe 45 minutes on either end. I don't put off sleeping so that at least moves all the time to one end, but an hour and a half is basically 1 workout and a shower or a movie.

 

[Oeshon]

my 30s have been amazing.

i have health, time, and resources.

this sounds like a you problem

 

[Oeshon]

as for my thoughts. life is meaningless man. you need to find your own meaning and value in it.

it needs to be something internal. it doesnt even have to be a deep desire or passion (if you already had these, you wouldnt be feeling this way). start with a hobby or a goal of some sort. it can be as simple or as lofty as you want it to be.

for me, im just happy banging lots of hot girls every week. maybe for you, its planting trees, or fixing cars, or something else.

dont be boxed in my societal pressures on how to live too. you dont need to worry about fixing cars and houses and doing all that shit you dont wanna do if you dont want to do it. hell, you could get a van and live out of it and ride it around the country/world.

 

[Rhood]

You should consider experimenting with substances.
It will change your perspective on life.
The world won't seem so black & white after all.

 

[Garnet_StrongerThanYou]

my 30s have been amazing.

i have health, time, and resources.

this sounds like a you problem

Yea what the hell?

I’m 32 and I’m a dad of an 11 year old and I’m having the time of my life.

I work hard but I’m free. I’m working towards my goals. I’m dating women and I’m still going to find love someday, I’m not in a huge rush. I can settle down for good at 38.

I’m in the best shape of my life, and I’m going to have that six pack soon.

We gotta be more positive around here.

Being a kid sucked for me. I had to deal with violence and abuse all the time.

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

You have your own property. You're in a good position.

 

[Billy no mates]

I'm 33 and can't say I've enjoyed a second of living beyond age 30. Fun no longer exists. Career paths narrow if not dissolve completely. Seems like you just tread water between here and death, fixing whatever breaks on the house next and putting the kids through college along the way. Car shits out, buy a new one. Parents get up and age and die. Health problems start settling in.. Correct me if I'm wrong. I'm not suicidal by any means, just puzzled by the banality of adulthood.

In what way does 'fun no longer exist' that would seem to the crux of the matter , why do you feel that can you no longer have fun ? .

 

[cincymma79]

my 30s have been amazing.

i have health, time, and resources.

this sounds like a you problem

I would like to go back to before I hurt my thumb in jiu jitsu if I could pick an age. So 31 or 32, but I want the strength I had at 38 or so. Also, dating at 30 really swung the ball in my court. I had money looks and a good job. A was getting laid 2 and 3 times a day for a long stretch. 40 is kinda weird but so far so good

 

[Cole train]

my 30s have been amazing.

i have health, time, and resources.

this sounds like a you problem

Well most of us arent oligarchs

To you ts i recommend:

Country music and heroin

 

[davidlemonparty]

Are you asking what is best in life?

Spoiler

Otherwise I think you need to watch this movie:

 

[Simian Raticus]

My life's only gotten better in my 30s.

I'm much less of a dumbass and I've got money.

 

[Merlotte's]

One of these days I’m going to slap a woman in the face as hard as I can. It’s the only reason to keep going.