I agree about TKD - in many ways its worse than Karate. Far too flash, too many low ratio techniques and the points based sparring/competitions hold it back. Again though, that doesn't mean there aren't techniques that would/should usefully be incorporated into your own skillset - the low spinning hook kick for example seems a legit follow on move from a failed roundhouse or for an opponent who is off your weak side.
Look, I haven't checked out the nearby TKD school. So my view is really shallow. Internet demos. And there are quite a range, more so than karate... think I (we) posted that recently.
You've had more experience. But reading through, you sound kinda like MMA. I'll post about that momentarily.
I currently train Boxing, MT and BJJ. I have also done Krav in the past and occasionally do now too. Boxing is my favourite (boxed as a teenager) and what I am best at but I do rate MT for its simplicity and focus on power and toughness.
On the boxing / MT, what you wrote is the sense I am getting. On the same page there. Muay Thai is
too simple in approach, if one wants a thought. Really popular with those boys kicking the bag thread.
I skipped BJJ for Judo for much the same reason you posted about MT, simplicity of approach (in a manner).
Again like boxing its rare to find a rubbish MT club. I live in London and there are loads of good boxing/MT/BJJ/MMA clubs now - a lot of whom have good timetables with loads of classes and offer several different disciplines for one membership. I can train 2 hours every lunchtime for example (as much as I can due to work commitments - tbh usually 3/4 days per week plus Saturday morning).
Those arts in my area are usually in MMA advertised schools, which the quality speaks the worse of all worlds. Me biased again.
If time/money was no object then I would love to learn a proper TMA (Judo preferably) but the fact is for most people who want to learn the basics of self defence in a short time along with some good conditioning and can only afford to train say 2/3 times a week TMAs are not the best option.
From that boxing girl challenge vid, one of boxing's pragmatic aspects is getting you up & running. TMA's (karate & such) hold out promise, but load themselves with rigmarole.... Not boxing.
I want to stick w judo now and postpone striking. Especially if I did say karate because as you say this loads on a more expansive activity which makes for learning overload and time sink. If I began right now, I'd box @ that local club. Friendly, low key but the owner lays out the boxing tools.
I also think the order in which you learn matters. Boxing plus wrestling is a great base which focuses on fundamentals which you can then add MT/Krav plus BJJ/Judo etc.
I see. I think boxing & judo would work too, as I posted. Adding MT, Krav,? don't want to go there. Too hogge podgy. Looking at that boxing program, the big, I mean BIG mistake is mistaking streamlined art for simple workings. Along with the conditioning effort. Oh, no.
A friend of mine was a decent LHW amateur boxer and is now a Krav instructor for example. A lot of the (fair) criticism about poor striking in many Krav schools doesn't apply to him. Its about evolving what you know to make it more effective, and a lot of it is situational - I worked the doors years ago and that was mostly grappling (with the odd punch lol). Now I know more locks and holds that would have been useful then. These days when I train purely for self defence I basically use grappling plus dirty boxing (elbows/hammerfists/palm strikes etc) plus the teep to control range. It works for me, peeps have to find what works for them.
All makes sense. Boxing dirty, me gotta learn clean 1st.
As for judo, we have the different aptitudes. I'm a regular guy. Most of us can do the physical end. The strength of the Japanese approach (and through the instructors) is we all seem able to progress. This is what I first objected to about the Wing chun discussions I ran across, and your Krav,? too fancy unclear, over complicated;? no wonder it doesn't work out.