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Well, if she did girl on girl and wants to bring her hot friends into the relationship then who am I to judge her harshly?
Used to date a girl. She was my longest relationship ever. We were young and growing etc. Anyway she used to give out bj’s like it was her job. Road head, movies , just sitting on the couch drops down and goes to work.
Anyway. Fast forward a few years. Bought house etc doing “family planning type life”
noticed I hadn’t gotten a BJ in a while like maybe two months and mentioned it.
“Hey how about a BJ today”
I got this in return.
“Oh no, I’m never doing that again. This is the mouth I’m gonna kiss our kids with one day, I can’t do that anymore”
Needless to say, putting up with her shit was no longer worth it.
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What is this Sherdog obcession with "damaged good porn actresses"? some kind of fetish were people can only get off in they believe the woman there watching is being degraded?
This may shock you, but I don’t pull 10s anymore. I know, I know.. But you have to take my word for it.Now that you say that she is kinda gross, but I have to stay in my league. Maybe by the time I'm 135 years old I'll have 63k posts on an mma website and then I will be pulling in some 10s left and right like you.
I haven't had a chance to read through the thread, but I imagine others share my sentiment: I would not marry a pornographic actress or sex worker, but not because I ascribe negative moral characteristics to the occupation. I think that North America in particular has perverse (pun not intended) relationship with expressions of sexuality, particularly female sexuality. There is an irony that the same people who criticize sex workers as being immoral or somehow "less than" other woman, have no issues watching pornography. The trade exists because there is a demand for it - I can only assume that if you watch pornography, you have no issues with woman (or men) starring in pornography.
My issue is two fold - 1) Rightly or wrongly, I would be concerned about what friends and family would think, 2) I am far too insecure and jealous to manage a long term relationship with someone who is with other men. I would be constantly ruminating about whether she has feelings for someone else, whether I would be able to satisfy her sexually etc. The latter insecurity is also why I probably have issues with what friends and family would think - I would be afraid of being called a cuck, someone who isn't respected or loved by their partner etc.
I suppose there are other practical issues of concerns surrounding STDs, drug abuse etc (prevalent in the porn industry), but those would be secondary to my first two reasons.
It's a discussion that relates to woman's sexual liberation and how that makes us men feel. Extremes are useful to elicit the logical or illogical response that much more.
This same thread has been made about 20 times here, there seems to be some deep seated need a lot of posters have here to confirm to themselves that porn actresses are utterly degraded and untouchable.
The same with the obsession for posting stories about "female teacher slept with student".