I see what you're saying, but it might be understandable in this case. Mainly because dude is laid up zombie style, depressed, sick, and his wife is out there vacationing and talking about finding herself and life and etc. Seems like a lot of the "she only cares about herself/power" appears to be lining up with her actions rather than random critique, so naturally she'll get criticized versus if she was the concerned wife at his bedside. It would be anyone.
But this all could have been avoided by not voting for a guy who clearly was a zombie during the election by anyone observing with eyes and ears (remember the mass backlash at the mere suggestion that he was unfit? Lol), and the least surprising thing is he's "out" right after winning. But it also could have been avoided by not throwing up the ultra terrible Dr. Oz. So I guess everyone is getting what they deserve here.