Her friend sent me screenshots of the conversations they were having, which also included her sending nudes to him. They went bowling and to the movies together, so yeah, I’d say they were actual dates.
He wasn’t a random dude, I also knew the guy prior to all this but never liked him.
So, what gives exactly? I see dudes in similar situations to myself just absolutely loving it and having the time of their lives, yet here I am finding myself slowly getting more depressed as each day goes by and going back to my excessive drinking habits.
you'reI’ve been inactive on here for a little while and never usually make threads like these, but here goes.
A little backstory - I split up with my fiancé (and mother of my child) a couple months ago due to her going on cute dates with a convicted criminal while I was at work providing for our family. We were supposed to be getting married in November and had pretty much everything booked. Now I’m living alone and paying child support.
Now, during the time we’ve broken up, I’ve never been so sexually active in my life and have slept with multiple different women through Tinder. I thought this would be the start of an exciting and fulfilling new bachelor life, but instead I’m left with feelings of emptiness and loneliness every night. It’s at the point now where I’m not even enjoying sleeping with these women anymore and I’m only doing it to feed my own ego.
So, what gives exactly? I see dudes in similar situations to myself just absolutely loving it and having the time of their lives, yet here I am finding myself slowly getting more depressed as each day goes by and going back to my excessive drinking habits.
Probably not the best place to post this, but I needed to vent.
The two worst words I read in all of that were "child support." You probably should have married her just to avoid that (if nothing else).I’ve been inactive on here for a little while and never usually make threads like these, but here goes.
A little backstory - I split up with my fiancé (and mother of my child) a couple months ago due to her going on cute dates with a convicted criminal while I was at work providing for our family. We were supposed to be getting married in November and had pretty much everything booked. Now I’m living alone and paying child support.
Now, during the time we’ve broken up, I’ve never been so sexually active in my life and have slept with multiple different women through Tinder. I thought this would be the start of an exciting and fulfilling new bachelor life, but instead I’m left with feelings of emptiness and loneliness every night. It’s at the point now where I’m not even enjoying sleeping with these women anymore and I’m only doing it to feed my own ego.
So, what gives exactly? I see dudes in similar situations to myself just absolutely loving it and having the time of their lives, yet here I am finding myself slowly getting more depressed as each day goes by and going back to my excessive drinking habits.
Probably not the best place to post this, but I needed to vent.
You sound depressed. Like clinically depressed. You should look into therapy.I lived the bachelor life and I thought I hated it. After losing my parents and being on my own for a handful of years, I got lonely. I ran thru girls on various dating sites.. I felt like none of them were GF material.
Then I met a girl. I forced myself to settle down. 2 months later we married. I figured how bad could it be?
A month after marriage I got her pregnant. 5 months into the pregnancy we separated. I was done. I couldn't stand her. My life took a turn for the worse financially because of her. I spent a year rebuilding my life. I lived in absolute poverty for a year. Starvation. Could keep my utilities paid, etc...
That was a few years ago..
I'm back to living the bachelor life. I absolutely don't want to be tied down or married ever..
I have come to realize that life is just boring.. I'm always going to be bored most of the time. There is not much I can do about it.. I have accepted it
The best times I had in my life happened during my childhood. Nothing will ever beat that. The childhood and friends I had as a kid was reminiscent of the movie The Goonies... Life was an adventure. I'd give anything to go back....
No amount of spending money, partying, or banging hotties will ever beat hanging out with my best childhood friends...
Relationships are tricky. I've made some choices I question or regret. But marrying someone you've known for 2 months?Then I met a girl. I forced myself to settle down. 2 months later we married.
I have come to realize that life is just boring.. I'm always going to be bored most of the time. There is not much I can do about it.. I have accepted it
The best times I had in my life happened during my childhood. Nothing will ever beat that. The childhood and friends I had as a kid was reminiscent of the movie The Goonies... Life was an adventure. I'd give anything to go back....
No amount of spending money, partying, or banging hotties will ever beat hanging out with my best childhood friends...
thanks for askingHow old is your ex and convict?
I ask because it sounds like something a person with no responsibility would do not a person with a child. How long were you seeing her for and when you met, were you guys deeply in love with each other?
I ask because I want to know if relationships fizzle out because their foundation is based on sexuality or if its based on companionship and deep affection.