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My mother always told me "You don't live in a dead man's shoes." I've internalized this message. I could stand to inherit a great deal but, really, this is something someone else has earned. I don't believe I deserve any of it in virtue of some happenstance genetic tie. I've told her to enjoy her retirement after my father passes away, and I hope she does. If I get something it's not something I earned, so I'll thank my lucky stars, but I won't expect it.
Also, I don't buy the "I don't expect help." You say that while simultaneously saying "I am angry that I am not being given help because in that situation I would give help" and laying it on pretty thick that you think it's the right thing to do. So, basically, you "don't expect help" but you seem to be strongly suggesting that it's wrong that you're not getting it.
As for you, reason through your sense of entitlement to this money and figure out why you feel so entitled. That might help you resolve this issue.
I think you should send a message to be written out of any will at once and post a copy of it on Sherdog for us.