I got in a huge fight with a female friend over this. Yeah, I find it off-putting. I could never watch a gay male porno I don't think, and not into seeing men kiss. I was called a homophobe. I don't agree personally. I think a lot of this stuff about being a homophobe if you won't want to see gay men, or being a transphobe if you don't want to suck a "feminine penis" is really horrible intellectual masturbation from the far left.
For a straight man, watching lesbians is obviously much different than watching gay men. First off, women are just naturally more beautiful, they are like Lamborghinis and Feraris compared to men that look like Elon's truck. Secondly, lesbian women in movies are invariably both hawt ones, not like real life lesbians who tend to be butch and ugly (at least one).