Social Is it homophobic to find two men kissing or having sex in movies off-putting?

[Lord_Impaler]

Don’t care what you call me not gonna watch it lol.

 

[Hog-train]

So...prison rules? I don't know why you think that's a +1 in regards to what homosexuality is, but by all means, continue making self defeating arguments, like "It was cool in ancient times, like slavery, and animals do it too".

Does it just kill you guys to say, "Some sectors of Humanity has evolved to accept same sex relationships", without bringing in the animal kingdom and ancient warlord societies? You're not doing your argument any favors, by comparing it to that shit.

They are human beings. Modern human beings. Stay on that track.

Pretty sure some humans were doing gay shit since the caveman days. It's a part of the human condition. Some percentage has always been gay.

 

[Unknown Pleasures]

Pretty sure some humans were doing gay shit since the caveman days. It's a part of the human condition. Some percentage has always been gay.

Plus people just like to do things and experiment. My friend is a nurse, she tells me the amount of people who show up to the hospital having issues with removing items rammed up their ass is shockingly high.

 

[mkess101]

Plus people just like to do things and experiment. My friend is a nurse, she tells me the amount of people who show up to the hospital having issues with removing items rammed up their ass is shockingly high.

Username checks out...

 

[EL CORINTHIAN]

Pretty sure some humans were doing gay shit since the caveman days. It's a part of the human condition. Some percentage has always been gay.

No doubt, but a good portion of that condition is a result of rape. People need to understand that and not dress it up as some romantic getaway where two cavemen whip out the lube and go to town. Same with animals.

 

[UFCUCF]

Doesn’t fit my definition of homophobic, but I do think finding 2 men kissing/having sex gross is purely a social construct. I don’t think anyone is born with this aversion. I think it is a learned revulsion.

 

[D 1 Wrestler]

This sounds like projection. It’s okay if you like that stuff. I’m open to people doing their own thing. Not everyone needs to enjoy dudes kissing. There is nothing wrong with being gay.

It's not projection, I already posted the story that was done proving what I said. I'm sorry that study described you

 

[D 1 Wrestler]

So...prison rules? I don't know why you think that's a +1 in regards to what homosexuality is, but by all means, continue making self defeating arguments, like "It was cool in ancient times, like slavery, and animals do it too".

Does it just kill you guys to say, "Some sectors of Humanity has evolved to accept same sex relationships", without bringing in the animal kingdom and ancient warlord societies? You're not doing your argument any favors, by comparing it to that shit.

They are human beings. Modern human beings. Stay on that track.

Prison rules are for homosexuals who use prison rules as an excuse. I'd bet many were outwardly homophobic outside with supressed homosexual feelings , just like the study I linked

 

[herpd807]

I choose N for normal.

Like that won't start a complete shit storm throw yourself on on the floor kicking and screaming from plenty on the left.

Why should it? Normal is now so fucking rare that it's special and unique.

 

[EL CORINTHIAN]

It's not projection, I already posted the story that was done proving what I said. I'm sorry that study described you

No one takes that study seriously, except you appearently. The penile circumference test is a poor way to test actual sexual arousal.

You simply want to believe in the irony of it all and so your steadfast in perpetuating it.

 

[I Am Legion]

Doesn’t fit my definition of homophobic, but I do think finding 2 men kissing/having sex gross is purely a social construct. I don’t think anyone is born with this aversion. I think it is a learned revulsion.

I think it could be learned, but I also think that it isn't the norm and different things can tun people off. I can see a lot of the gay guys in here defending it, and screaming "homophobia", but that isn't it for me. Optically, I just don't care for it. Why would I? I'm not gay. But if I were a gay man, I guess it would upset me that my affection for a partner is seen as "gross". My point is that if two men in public are kissing, I just look away. If it is a movie or show loaded with it, I turn it off. I'm not saying don't do it. It just isn't something I care to see. I don't like watching old people eat either. I love old people though.

 

[RoastBeast]

Doesn’t fit my definition of homophobic, but I do think finding 2 men kissing/having sex gross is purely a social construct. I don’t think anyone is born with this aversion. I think it is a learned revulsion.

The vast majority of straight people are certainly born with that aversion. There are many behaviors that people just naturally find gross and homosexuality is one of them if you are heterosexual. We're born with instincts for a reason. It's why you don't have to take a bite out of your shit in order to know that you don't like eating shit.

If you're a straight man and had to play spin the bottle with your coworkers and the bottle landed on some guy, you'd be grossed out at the thought of having to kiss him. Someone socially telling you that you should be grossed out in that situation is not necessary.

 

[Roop Holstry]

No one takes that study seriously, except you appearently. The penile circumference test is a poor way to test actual sexual arousal.

You simply want to believe in the irony of it all and so your steadfast in perpetuating it.

I think the only thing that this experiment proves is that these ”scientists” are gay. One of these guys woke up one day and thought “let’s make dudes watch gay porn and see if they get hard and then measure their dicks”

 

[Lord_Impaler]

I think the only thing that this experiment proves is that these ”scientists” are gay. One of these guys woke up one day and thought “let’s make dudes watch gay porn and see if they get hard and then measure their dicks”

I’m sure the men who agreed to be subjects in a study where you watch gay porn and have another dude measure your dick were totally normal.

 

[CatchnShoot]

I don't think homophobic comes into it.
I believe it's hardwired into our brains. Like when I see a spider I want to smash it. I'm not thinking about it, I don't fear or hate spiders, I just instinctively smash. Maybe this was a learned behavior as a child? Dunno.

Like if you see a particular color on a house, you might have an immediate reaction to it. It's not like you are shit brown phobic, you just have an honest reponse. Gross.

Film/life can has uncomfortable moments for EVERYBODY, and what is uncomfortable for me, might not effect you at all, and vice versa, and that is OK.

So, it's not homophobic to have a negative response to seeing to men kissing, it's natural. What would be homophobic is trying to have the film banned because of the kiss.

That's my 2 cents anyway.

 

[mkess101]

I’m sure the men who agreed to be subjects in a study where you watch gay porn and have another dude measure your dick were totally normal.

Bahaha that's what I was thinking.

I'm gonna guess the compensation was solid. I sure hope so.

 

[skysolo]

I don't think tv and movies are as open as they pretend to be.

I watched almost every episode of Modern Family and Cam and Mitch kissed two times (maybe). They barely even touched at all.

Meanwhile, Phil and Claire kissed multiple times and were caught having sex. Gloria and Jay kissed multiple times and were generally all over each other.

I know it's just one show from 10 years ago on ABC.

 

[D 1 Wrestler]

No one takes that study seriously, except you appearently. The penile circumference test is a poor way to test actual sexual arousal.

You simply want to believe in the irony of it all and so your steadfast in perpetuating it.

Got it, you get a semi when you see two dudes kissing but it's because you're straight AF

 

[spamking]

I don't think tv and movies are as open as they pretend to be.

I watched almost every episode of Modern Family and Cam and Mitch kissed two times (maybe). They barely even touched at all.

Meanwhile, Phil and Claire kissed multiple times and were caught having sex. Gloria and Jay kissed multiple times and were generally all over each other.

I know it's just one show from 10 years ago on ABC.

There are several that seem to not be able to tell a story without this type of content though. I've continued to watch several series with it and just fast forward through most of the scenes where it's happening. Designated Survivor, the 911 series, etc.

 

[James Eagle]

Sure there are. Folks listed them for you

relaionships?


you sure about that there lil buddy?