Open relationships

Discussion in 'Mayberry Lounge' started by Nesruk, Jan 11, 2018.

  1. Viva

    Viva Dragon Energy

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2009
    Messages:
    30,193
    Likes Received:
    1,922
    Location:
    greater appalachia
    It is a seemingly more benign form of cuckoldry, but cuckoldry nonetheless.
     
  2. DragRacer

    DragRacer Black Belt

    Joined:
    Jan 13, 2010
    Messages:
    6,285
    Likes Received:
    13,294
    Location:
    Columbus OH
    I’m cool with hooking up with another couple as long as the other guy goes and fucks off somewhere else while my wife and I objectify his chick. :D
     
    The ScorpioN and Nesruk like this.
  3. CrimsonFan

    CrimsonFan Silver Belt

    Joined:
    May 1, 2009
    Messages:
    14,507
    Likes Received:
    10,377
    Location:
    Austin, TX
    If i was the kind of guy that slays ass all the time.. Sure.


    But im not. Dont get me wrong i do ok, but asuming this mystery girl im in an open relationship is remotely attractive.. She would be getting laid alot more than me.. And id probably get pissy
     
    Nesruk likes this.
  4. Aegon Spengler

    Aegon Spengler Gold Belt

    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2009
    Messages:
    15,540
    Likes Received:
    8,268
    Location:
    Location: Location
    That sounds like a fantasy world.
     
  5. sub_thug

    sub_thug Red Belt

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2008
    Messages:
    9,863
    Likes Received:
    9,551
    Open relationships are just code for "We don't really care about one another on any sort of deep level, but we still like using each other for what we can each get out of this deal." It's just a form of selfishness that is mutually agreed upon by the participants in the relationship.
     
    The ScorpioN, RayA, Mike and 2 others like this.
  6. ObsoleteSoul

    ObsoleteSoul Silver Belt

    Joined:
    Dec 5, 2009
    Messages:
    12,864
    Likes Received:
    11,781
    Location:
    Managing at the "No Hassle Nipple Tassel Castle"
    Couldn't do it. I dont even like sharing my food, let alone my pussy. If she would ask me about an open relationship, it would be game over. No use staying when she has that on her mind.
     
    Mike likes this.
  7. I Am Legion

    I Am Legion Black Belt

    Joined:
    Jun 11, 2013
    Messages:
    6,582
    Likes Received:
    7,241
    I don’t know why, but some guys get off on watching another guy plow their wife....I’m trying to understand the allure, I just can’t.
     
    Jim Cozad Jr. and Mike like this.
  8. sub_thug

    sub_thug Red Belt

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2008
    Messages:
    9,863
    Likes Received:
    9,551
    Neither do I, but be glad that you don't. Seems bit like understanding crazy. You have to be crazy to really understand it, right?
     
    ObsoleteSoul likes this.
  9. berimBOWLoh

    berimBOWLoh Silver Belt

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2013
    Messages:
    11,062
    Likes Received:
    5,619
    My wife likes women so she has free reign to pursue women and so do I. Sometimes together some times apart. 14 years together it works for us.

    Monogamy is tougher imo it's a fools errand
     
    WandySaku2 likes this.
  10. AGGAMEMNON66

    AGGAMEMNON66 -----------Villain-----------

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2010
    Messages:
    33,720
    Likes Received:
    15,729
    Location:
    as distant as the horizon
    Nope.
     
    TeTe likes this.
  11. TeTe

    TeTe Senior Moderator Staff Member Senior Moderator

    Joined:
    Apr 3, 2008
    Messages:
    38,200
    Likes Received:
    74,975
    Location:
    San Diego
    Define relationship... There are a lot of people that are fuck buddies and screw other people, but there isn't much of a relationship attached to it.

    I heard Neil Strauss talk about how most people who decide to have an open relationship end up breaking up fairly quickly. But I guess if both of you can get over the fact that your partner fucked some other person the first couple times.. you stop caring after a while no matter how many other people they sleep with and carry on long term. But finding two people that can get over those initial feelings is nearly impossible.
     
    Eazy123 and ObsoleteSoul like this.
  12. Pugilistic

    Pugilistic Red Belt

    Joined:
    May 14, 2008
    Messages:
    7,857
    Likes Received:
    10,265
    The best sort of relationship in my opinion. No strings, no expectations, complete honesty, the purest form of love.
    I tried it once and I failed miserably at it because I was too much of a coward and too territorial, but I am in a different place now and would do it better now I think.
     
  13. Mike

    Mike Apathetic Belt

    Joined:
    Jun 6, 2010
    Messages:
    22,435
    Likes Received:
    25,737
    Location:
    A sea of human garbage
    I've known a lot of people in open relationships over the years. It never works. Someone always gets attached, or only one of them is really into it. Or one of them is more charismatic than the other and is pulling more side pieces.


    Monogamy doesn't work, but openly banging other people doesn't really work either.


    <Fedor23>
     
    Ikuza likes this.
  14. Eazy123

    Eazy123 Brown Belt

    Joined:
    Dec 25, 2015
    Messages:
    4,872
    Likes Received:
    7,495
    My cousin proposed the idea of open marriage to her husband - he told me last year at a family get together. He seemed pretty pissed about it. It's fitting though because my cousin is a fucking head case and didn't give a shit about him to begin with, just married him for the shock value since he's like 15-20 years older than her.

    I don't know what their status is now but I don't wanna know. All I know is she still has his last name and is messing with another guy and talks about him all the time. *shudder* Their kid is gonna be royally fucked up thinking he has two dads. Actually wait, the kid's already fucked up.
     
    ObsoleteSoul and TeTe like this.
  15. bufetadanacara

    bufetadanacara Brown Belt

    Joined:
    Jun 17, 2008
    Messages:
    4,649
    Likes Received:
    2,910



    Please explain the bolded part, there must be something you're doing wrong.
     
  16. Jim Cozad Jr.

    Jim Cozad Jr. Brown Belt

    Joined:
    Apr 15, 2016
    Messages:
    2,687
    Likes Received:
    5,572
    This completely baffles me as well...
     
    I Am Legion likes this.
  17. Drain Bamage

    Drain Bamage Purple Belt

    Joined:
    Jun 26, 2017
    Messages:
    2,449
    Likes Received:
    2,743
    Because you said you were interested and she wasnt?
     
  18. FacePunch

    FacePunch Banned Banned

    Joined:
    Apr 13, 2017
    Messages:
    7,545
    Likes Received:
    19,279
    Location:
    Courteously Obeying All Traffic Laws
    LOL. This cuck thread.
     
  19. Gunny

    Gunny Silver Belt

    Joined:
    Oct 24, 2006
    Messages:
    14,305
    Likes Received:
    6,794
    Location:
    Naperville
    I was in an open relationship about 16 years ago - my gf didn’t know but that’s another story. I’d say not sleeping with the same girl twice is a wise policy.
     
  20. Amerikuracana

    Amerikuracana Titanium Belt

    Joined:
    Feb 23, 2007
    Messages:
    39,921
    Likes Received:
    10,260
    Location:
    Macomb mi
    .. Are skanky and loveless things between people with low souls.





    The end.
     
    Mike likes this.

Share This Page