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  1. Amerikuracana Titanium Belt

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    If you weren't evening the score, I'm sorry man. It hurts.
     
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    Open- no dice.

    Nothing wrong with a little swinging tbh. Spices it up!
     
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    No because I said I was in one in the past so that means I probably have a disease, I use women to feed my ego and that I'm a disgusting piece of shit. She brought it up because her roommate is in one and she was saying she can't be friends with her anymore. All I was saying was don't be quick to judge.

    Well she judged all right.
     
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  4. Renard Brown Belt

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    There are people in open relationships that seem to be doing fine. They start off like that though, cards on the table, they don't transition from monogamy. Still, it's hard to believe that hearts aren't getting bruised in the process. If you have a connection with someone, it's human nature to want to keep them all to yourself.
     
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  5. Nesruk Orange Belt

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    Well like I wrote I might just be inexperienced but for me there just feels like something is missing if I dont care about the person. Its just physical/mechanical and I dont really get much out of it. I'm probably just weird
     
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    I guess you could call it weird in the current hook up culture but I'm like that too.

    One nights stands/sticking my dick in a girl just to get off without having any attraction beyond physical is unsatisfying for me, and in most of those cases I would've been just as happy jerking off instead.

    I feel no compulsion to add to my list of "conquests". Don't get me wrong, I love sex as much as anyone, but I'm perfectly content waiting for it until I find a girl I'm actually interested in for more than her vagina.
     
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    Had a buddy years ago that was into it...one year he told his wife what he wanted for Christmas. He wanted him and his best friend to both plow his wife while his best friends brother video taped it. Weird ass motherfucker he was.
     
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  8. Ah Man Brown Belt

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    I suppose technically I'm in one, as both my wife and I have communicated to each other that we don't care to restrict each other in that manner. I haven't taken advantage of it. Might some day, but I'm not promiscuous by nature. I'm also not jealous by nature. As far as I know, she doesn't take advantage of it, but if she does that's fine. If she doesn't, that's fine too. As long as she practices safe sex, I don't see how it affects me.

    In our case, it's not a lifestyle choice. It's more ideological. I think in many cases it comes from people in a relationship that want to pursue sex with other people, where they would want to restrict the other person, but are making a bargain. In our case it's not a bargain. It comes from not wanting to deny each other something, if the other wants it. We're more concerned with the life we want to build together.
     
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    Youre only seeing it from your point of view and there is no right answer because nature tells us that monogamy is a made up people thing. Im not necessarily against what youre saying, Im not for open relationships but im not gonna tell others how to live there life either.

    I believe it is possible to love a person while wanting to fuck others. It almost seems like the perfect way to be
     
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    Just depends...im not talking about fucking girls in Last jedi. I just give my personal experiences in a post.

    also i rarely ever mention sex in the boxing forum i frequent.

    I know you like that guy but if you check that last jedi thread on 2 different occasions i said something about star wars and he jumped on me. The first time i ignored him the 2nd time i fucked with him back
     
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  11. Strange King Strange Music

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    No i get it i was just speaking in general term but in all honesty it should be that much work because every new relationship should start with a test to make sure both parties are clean but obviously they dont
     
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  13. Lowmanproblems Green Belt

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    It's kind of human nature to fuck around. How many people break up because someone cheated? How many times do people cheat and not tell the other? What the hell is the difference?

    When I used to travel a lot working, I fucked around all the time. If I go out drinking with my pals and want to fuck someone, why does that not mean I don't love the other person I'm seeing? If she thinks she wants to fuck someone else when I'm gone why am I going to get mad about it? I'm not there fulfilling her sexual needs. It's about truth, some of you guys act like because you are with someone, you own them.

    Maybe you just have small dicks and are afraid someone else is going to please her more. I say get better at laying the pipe to where the only dick she wants is yours. If you can't please her someone else will.
     
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    It feels like it sometimes too.
     
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  15. Eazy123 Brown Belt

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    Actually it's not but nice attempt at being edgy.

    If you would have simply said humans aren't meant to be monogamous I wouldn't have said anything but it's far from a "made up people thing"
     
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  16. Strange King Strange Music

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    People are humans. Its the same thing
     
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  17. Eazy123 Brown Belt

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    boy go Google monogamy and animals. Then report back. It wasn't invented by people, humans, homo sapiens or whatever your definition is

    Chop chop son
     
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  18. Strange King Strange Music

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    bro im lost by your stupidity. I say people you say humans and somehow thats a problem with you. Well suck it up

    i dont believe you really are in any position to have an open relationship so you hate them. Kind of an ugly person mindframe
     
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  19. Eazy123 Brown Belt

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    Stupidity is ignoring what any basic Google search will tell you. Nice try though. Try not to cut yourself on that edginess
     
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  20. Strange King Strange Music

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    ok man we get it you dont like banging other women. cool story move on now
     
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