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Apparently me and my ex-wife were in an open relationship for years
If you weren't evening the score, I'm sorry man. It hurts.
Apparently me and my ex-wife were in an open relationship for years
Because you said you were interested and she wasnt?
Well like I wrote I might just be inexperienced but for me there just feels like something is missing if I dont care about the person. Its just physical/mechanical and I dont really get much out of it. I'm probably just weirdPlease explain the bolded part, there must be something you're doing wrong.
Well like I wrote I might just be inexperienced but for me there just feels like something is missing if I dont care about the person. Its just physical/mechanical and I dont really get much out of it. I'm probably just weird
Had a buddy years ago that was into it...one year he told his wife what he wanted for Christmas. He wanted him and his best friend to both plow his wife while his best friends brother video taped it. Weird ass motherfucker he was.I don’t know why, but some guys get off on watching another guy plow their wife....I’m trying to understand the allure, I just can’t.
That is straight up bullshit and I hear people in open relationships say that. If you married a whore and you wanna keep her that bad then you need your head checked out. Chances are one person wants to whore and the other is not too keen on it, because if both of them are truly game, then what's the point of being married?
Those people also look down on people who get married and talk about how many rules married people are bound by. This is just the same but with even more rules. Instead of "don't fuck anyone" it becomes "fuck only people I approve of on days I approve of, tell me who what where and when etc" and while those couples claim it's all about trust, it's a control play.
And eventually one person says "fuck it, he can't tell me who to bang and I want x dude" so they do it behind his back anyway. I've seen it happen, It's a facade and I've seen marriages implode because of how ridiculous it can get.
Or the guy ends up saying "we HAD rules but my wife wants to fuck whoever whenever and I can't control her". Then the guy realizes he has ZERO control and settles for being a cuck because love or marriage or whatever
... I never said or even insinuated that you having sex with women was weird. I said it was interesting that every story you tell involves you fucking some girl.
Nah that's too much work. Plus i don't want to swap. I'd just want to go about my life and when the opportunity to bang arose, I'd take it. And because i want to be fair, I'd have to allow her to do the same. Even though I'm not crazy about that image in my head.
Would you be in one if you current partner or a future one said they wanted it or were open to it?
There are many kinds and rules people use to make it work, some never sleep with the same person twice, some got a dont ask dont tell policy and things like that.
Personally I dont think I could do it because I'd be worried that my (imaginary) partner would get pregnant with another guy or get a disease that she would then give to me. Also I don't get much out of sex with someone I dont have feelings for, feels almost just like masturbating to me.
Though I will admit I dont got that much experience on the subject and I have never been in a relationship lasting longer than 6 months so never got bored of them physically.
What say you Mayberry?
Apparently me and my ex-wife were in an open relationship for years
That sounds like a fantasy world.
Youre only seeing it from your point of view and there is no right answer because nature tells us that monogamy is a made up people thing.
Actually it's not but nice attempt at being edgy.
If you would have simply said humans aren't meant to be monogamous I wouldn't have said anything but it's far from a "made up people thing"
boy go Google monogamy and animals. Then report back. It wasn't invented by people, humans, homo sapiens or whatever your definition isPeople are humans. Its the same thing
boy go Google monogamy and animals. Then report back. It wasn't invented by people humans homo sapiens or whatever your definition is
Chop chop son
bro im lost by your stupidity. I say people you say humans and somehow thats a problem with you. Well suck it up
i dont believe you really are in any position to have an open relationship so you hate them. Kind of an ugly person mindframe
Stupidity is ignoring what any basic Google search will tell you. Nice try though. Try not to cut yourself on that edginess