We weren't talking about me. We were talking about "white privilege". It's a term invented to promote the narrative that white people are co-conspirators in a system of oppression against non-whites. That non-whites can't succeed through hard work, discipline, and creativity but instead need liberals to use the power of government to achieve "justice" and carve out a "fair share".
It's how liberals keep control of their racial and sexual serfs and it's very dis-empowering for them. Liberals have done more harm to black people with their racial victim narratives and government based interventions than the KKK ever did. How many young fatherless black men have slaughtered each other because they were trapped in the soul killing hallucination of a racist America?