My Sister's Wedding

[loyalyolayal]

Why are you so insecure? Didn't you just start a thread asking if people thought they were good looking?

It's funny how insecure about themselves Sherdoggers are. I guess it comes with being on an MMA forum. It attracts certain people who lack so they train and overcompensate.

Grow a pair lol

It's a running joke.

 

[Pugilistic]

Sherbro, I’m sorry for you that you don’t feel any connection to your sister, or the rest of your family. You should definitely cherish your family while you have them, because you never know what tomorrow could bring. And let your grandma nag you, she probably just wants to see you happy.
It seems like you’re pretty willing to just write your sister off for dead, the way you say you’ll probably never see her again after you go to her wedding. I would advise you to make an effort to have a relationship. even if you’re nothing alike as people, you can still have a bond.
My brother and I were pretty different people. He was a junkie and in and out of prison for a long time before he turned his life around, but today I can’t think of anyone who has my back more than he does, and I have his too.
Don’t take you’re family for granted.

I don't get this. My older brother was awful to me as s kid. But we're still close. I'm very close to my little brother also.
I see them like every three years and it's rough. I don't see how you can just let family bonds fade like that .

This is what people say, that family is family. For a long time I felt guilt over not having a bond with my sister. Thought I should've tried harder or maybe something is wrong with me. I thought a lot about whether if I'm coming from a toxic place or resentment about some inexplicable memory was holding me back, but I don't think it is. But I literally feel no connection towards her. She's pretty much a complete stranger other than us having the last name. I don't know exactly what happened between us but that's how it has been for years now. A friend of mine once said he thinks I'll regret it someday and maybe I will, but at this point I don't know what it is I will regret.

Why are you so insecure? Didn't you just start a thread asking if people thought they were good looking?

It's funny how insecure about themselves Sherdoggers are. I guess it comes with being on an MMA forum. It attracts certain people who lack so they train and overcompensate.

Grow a pair lol

Maybe I like good looking guys?


As a short guy, the manlet meme here is funny to me. I'm making fun of myself really. Chill out and grow a sense of humor. Nobody cares about the human cawkfighting crap in the Berry anyway.

 

[HelloJapan]

I get you. I love my sister to death, but marriage isn't my thing, so it was hard to get excited about it...especially the second time :/

 

[CrimsonFan]

In a week my sister is getting married. I know it's a big deal and my parents are intimately involved with the planning and freaking out about it. My mom is even more neurotic than she usually is. My dad is pushing me to try to develop a relationship with my would-be brother-in-law and other than that he seems like a normal guy (not a manlet), I don't really give a shit about him either.

I know that weddings are big deals for most people but I find myself not really giving a shit about it, even though it's my sister's and I wonder if that makes me a weirdo. I can't even force myself to care. When I first heard that she's getting married, my thought process went, "Good for her. I hope she's happy." And that was it.

I think the whole concept of marriage is weird in the first place. To top it off I am not close to my sister at all. She's pretty much a stranger to me and we are nothing alike as people. I know brothers are supposed to be protective of their sisters but when I first heard that she was dating this dude years ago, I didn't want to get involved at all. She's a grown woman and she can make her own choices.

This also touches upon the fact that I've felt very distant from my family as a whole since I was young which is probably the biggest factor in my reaction. One of my best friends is getting married next year and I feel happier and more excited for him than for my sister.

But of course I'm attending, not because I really want to, but because as the brother, I have to be there to represent my family and greet people and shit. I am not looking forward to having my older relatives nag me about finding a girlfriend and getting married since my younger sister is getting married. I'm driving my grandmother to the wedding and she is going to nag me so much.

After the wedding, I will probably not see my sister again much for the rest of my life because she will be busy with her job and her new life as a wife. She'll probably have kids too.

I don't know what to feel about this. I actually don't feel much of anything but I feel like I should because it's my sister.

Thoughts?

TLDR:
1. My little sister is getting married.
2. I am apathetic.
3. Do I really have to care?

Look man I'm gonna give you a genuine response here


Your sister IS your responsibility, you need to meet this dude and feel good about it

Cutting your family off is never the answer. Pouting about your relationship and women problems is also something I was raised to say a man just doesn't do.

Basically I think you need to be there for your sister and man up alot in life. Just a sherbro talkin

 

[cobrinski]

Mary Jane is my best friend.Kill stress before...

 

[sissypunch]

I am not looking forward to having my older relatives nag me about finding a girlfriend

Tell Gammy that you didn't choose the incel life, the incel life chose you.

 

[machidafan99]

Most men don't care about weddings. It's expensive torture. Wait until friends drag you into their wedding parties and etc.

 

[ElKarlo]

But why is she a stranger? You grew up in the same house did you not?

My older brother best the living crap out of me, many times multiple times a day, for years. Yet I'm still cool with him.
Call her, or just straight up talk to her if you can. It's on you to make connections. They don't just happen. It takes effort

 

[ElKarlo]

Also think about when your parents die. You probably want someone to talk to and remember all the good and the bad. Don't do that with an estranged sister .

 

[ralphc1]

Well if you don't want relatives to " nag me about finding a girlfriend and getting married"
Tell them quietly that your gay, tell someone else your getting a sex change, another that your into bestiality, and another that "after your sister, relationships can't compare"

they'll leave you alone

Hire a hooker for the weekend and make sure she acts trashy so your relatives won't want you to marry her.

 

[ThinkGreen]

Weddings are fun. Go and get drunk and try to get laid.

 

[YellowBanenoo]

Pic of sister

Everything I know about TS is that he is a tiny asian male.

Therefore, his sister is probably be looking like this

 

[GordoBarraBJJ]

TS - I travelled to the future and took this video of you

 

[Shaungotti]

I've always hated weddings.

If I had to put my finger on the reason it's probably tied to the fact that I don't like public displays of affection. Especially when it's way over the top.

Seeing one of the bridesmaids crying because the bride just so beautiful. That shit just makes me gag. I always want to lean over and tell them to pull themselves together. Especially since them being seen crying is the main reason they are crying, not the beauty of it.

That's just one small thing but it's the sum of all those little annoying things that just got to me over the years. I'm a scrooge, I know.

 

[EndlessCritic]

One of the main reasons I don't divorce my wife is I'm worried I'll have to go through another wedding.

 

[Don Quixote]

I don’t have anything against marriage but we’re men, and we’re not supposed to put our heart ‘n soul into things like that. You did acknowledge your sisters marriage and that’s enough. I don’t find marriages the type of thing to get excited about; people take them way too seriously. More emphasis needs to be placed on their life after the wedding and not on the event.

 

[Jimmy McGill]

Well, it sounds like maybe not having a girlfriend could be a bit of the cause here. You don't want to be the outcast.

I wouldn't disagree with this theory, socially awkward incel, claims doesn't really want to attend his sister's wedding, because he thinks people will see him there alone, and

 

[nicapica]

In a week my sister is getting married. I know it's a big deal and my parents are intimately involved with the planning and freaking out about it. My mom is even more neurotic than she usually is. My dad is pushing me to try to develop a relationship with my would-be brother-in-law and other than that he seems like a normal guy (not a manlet), I don't really give a shit about him either.

I know that weddings are big deals for most people but I find myself not really giving a shit about it, even though it's my sister's and I wonder if that makes me a weirdo. I can't even force myself to care. When I first heard that she's getting married, my thought process went, "Good for her. I hope she's happy." And that was it.

I think the whole concept of marriage is weird in the first place. To top it off I am not close to my sister at all. She's pretty much a stranger to me and we are nothing alike as people. I know brothers are supposed to be protective of their sisters but when I first heard that she was dating this dude years ago, I didn't want to get involved at all. She's a grown woman and she can make her own choices.

This also touches upon the fact that I've felt very distant from my family as a whole since I was young which is probably the biggest factor in my reaction. One of my best friends is getting married next year and I feel happier and more excited for him than for my sister.

But of course I'm attending, not because I really want to, but because as the brother, I have to be there to represent my family and greet people and shit. I am not looking forward to having my older relatives nag me about finding a girlfriend and getting married since my younger sister is getting married. I'm driving my grandmother to the wedding and she is going to nag me so much.

After the wedding, I will probably not see my sister again much for the rest of my life because she will be busy with her job and her new life as a wife. She'll probably have kids too.

I don't know what to feel about this. I actually don't feel much of anything but I feel like I should because it's my sister.

Thoughts?

TLDR:
1. My little sister is getting married.
2. I am apathetic.
3. Do I really have to care?

you sound like a low life piece of garbage. its your sister bro.

 

[ElKarlo]

Most men don't care about weddings. It's expensive torture. Wait until friends drag you into their wedding parties and etc.

Yeah

I wouldn't disagree with this theory, socially awkward incel, claims doesn't really want to attend his sister's wedding, because he thinks people will see him there alone, and

There's an open bar, if I lived near i be tempted to go. Why don't you escort the TS to the ceremony? Open bar, and chance for action afterwards

 

[ObamaPhoneLady]

Well judging fron your daily threads on here, you have a narcissistic personality disorder, so it's not surprising at all that you don't care about something that isn't centered entirely around you.

But in this case, it's a normal thing for a young guy not to care about.