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I think, in context to that, Conor is more available to the public than the average person with $100m in the bank. That sort of at risk behavior is associated to drug use and Bipolar, which I think Conor clearly has. That being said, obviously an accusation makes it more likely that it's true than no accusation at all, but, that's about where we're at. Lots of weird stuff can be at play.
Story time: a very personal anecdote, I once had the sheriff call me and let me know a female that I had hooked up with a couple times didn't want me to contact her anymore. I was flabbergasted because about a week before we had facetimed on Snapchat and she said she'd hit me up about hooking up in a few days after she worked her shifts (we worked 12's at the time). We had been chatting/facetiming for a couple of weeks, nothing out of the ordinary. She worked at the same place as me but another department, we never really saw each other at work except in passing at a huge hospital. I talked to her mom a couple days later (a coworker of mine in my department, and her husband worked for the same law enforcement office that called me) and inquired if everything was okay. She always seemed to tell her mom everything and she was a no-nonsense kind of woman so I figured she'd be aware, and she was. She rolled her eyes and said "I'll let her tell you, don't worry about it. I'm sorry she did that." The young lady ran into me that day working and pulled me aside and she explained that her baby daddy (who she told me she was no longer seeing) had come over to pick up the kids and gone through her phone and saw my name under her snapchat list of convos and calls. He got super pissed and apparently was peri-abusive in general, so she told him I was some guy from work who "wouldn't leave her alone" and "wouldn't take no for an answer" but she didn't want to hurt my feelings. He (allegedly) dialed the police for her and demanded that she tell them that she was being harassed. I was pretty pissed and told her maybe she should tell the police about his abusiveness, etc. but she said it wasn't worth it since they had kids together. Long story short, like 3 weeks later they moved out of state together and have apparently been living happily ever after, according to her mother. I got tangled into some weird "I want to sleep around a few times while I'm separated from my baby daddy before I get back together with him" monkey branch type thing and had no clue. I had literally been to her house a few times and met her children, worked with her mom and am still friends with her mom on social media and her mom still texts me from time to time to see how I'm doing. After that, I was super careful about who I interacted with and how, especially if they had kids or a recent ex, worked at my same hospital, etc. because I never wanted to go through that again. I also learned the value in always keeping "receipts," because even though I didn't do anything wrong, being able to send the officer screen captures of our text/snap/phone calls time/dates etc. corroborated why I was so shell shocked that they were called. By the end of it the LEO just said something like "Well man, just don't contact her since this is official, but obviously this was just a big waste of my time."
Anyway, all of this to say that there's possibly a lot more to the story than any of us can imagine, even more than "either she was raped or she's trying to score a payday."
My only legitimate concern? After all of this, I was super careful about how I interacted with females with kids / recent exes and what not because I didn't wanna go through that again. Seems like Conor would want to avoid all female contact that isn't his wife after the first allegation. That is concerning to me.
