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nothing prepares you for this man. you hear it happening to other people and never think it can happen to you. well fuck.............

yes i believe that's what was planned. i know it sounds like it can be bullshit coming from your guys perspective, but i believe that was her plan. i just caught her beforehand. and if it really is bullshit, it doesn't matter anymore anyways

with no kids its a no brainer for me. idk if you have kids or have experienced this, but i always told myself if my wife cheats, we're done. and now that i am facing this very scenario, it is absolutely not that cut and dry. the thought of daddy or mommy not around anymore, only occasionally...

she had met up with the guy 3 times. sex was involved 2 of those times. all in a span of about 2-3 weeks. and she had planned on meeting him again this weekend for the last time. her plan was to see him again and cut that off, and recommit to me and our marriage. but i caught her so here we...

it's good to see you brotha, thanks for the positivity man. been a long while since i last logged in, i wasn't sure if anyone would remember me yes we both agree that the kids need to be and will be taken care of either way this concludes

you're not being a dick at all. you're telling it like how you see it. and let me be clear, i definitely own my part in it. i never abused her verbally or physically, i never treated her like shit. i was just neglectful in showing her how much i love her. the 15 years wasn't horrible by any...

she said she'd let me fuck another woman if i felt the need to get even we are living together still. this literally happened the night before i made this thread. we've been talking about everything these past couple of days. she is currently waiting for me to decide what i'm gonna do...

She has a good career, I stopped working 7 years ago because of my son. I get paid for in home support supervision to take care of him and my other kids. So I'm not unemployed but pay is low. If we divorce I got nothing. Some savings and a small 401k, 7 year gap in work history.

If we didn't have kids I'd be out, no hesitation, easy decision. But we got 5 kids, oldest is 13 She feels horrible, ashamed, regret.....and I do believe her. She fucked up, and made a huge mistake. I get that part. But I just can't look at her the same. I thought about all the...

Man, I didn't expect all the love and positivity. I'm truly touched guys. I can't put into words what I'm feeling. My mind is just everywhere. Sometimes the pain hits me so hard and it hurts so bad I can't breath. I feel like I need to tell u guys the details of myself and what happened... I'm...

I know how crazy this sounds, but we really aren't fighting about the split. Its gonna get legalized and we're gonna we're gonna make this as easy as possible Was never a heavy drinker. I like a few beers but never get plastered. I don't like getting wasted. And no drugs for me. Gonna clean up...

No lawyers. We are in agreement on not making things nasty. We are gonna work together as parents to our kids

Btw, I'm never getting married again. If I find a good woman I'm gonna love her right this time around The soon to be ex and I are civil and wanna co parent the best we can

So many good advise. I really appreciate it guys. I'm hurting pretty bad right now. I cried like a bitch earlier thinking about my kids. I agree judoka, a year from now my worries will be cut in half. I'm about 50 lbs overweight, I'm gonna hit the treadmill and weights. Would like to shed about...

Thanks guys, for all the kind words of encouragement. It actually made me feel better reading the comments

No coke n whores for me though. Was said in jest

I hear ya man. Marital issues I can get thru, but infidelity is something u can't come back from. She cheated And we do have kids

Thanks guys I been out the game so long though. And I look and feel like shit. One foot after the other though.....

I may have to take that route. U divorced and got back together? Lol, there's no point I guess. Just wanted to tell random strangers

Ive seen these threads before but never thought I'd be making this thread myself. How do u guys deal with this and move on? I feel like the worst is yet to come before it gets better. Hit the treadmill? Join a gym? Get back into shape? Coke n whores?