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Worse... Lil Tay... The lil 9 year old Asian girl who fucked up cash me outside girl.
this thing needs to run into flipflop mom!
Worse... Lil Tay... The lil 9 year old Asian girl who fucked up cash me outside girl.
Good points.Kick them both out of the fucking house, if the mom isn’t helping she’s part of the problem too.
If it was my step daughter all her shit would be gone, phone computer everything. Only use computer for homework supervised.
Sometimes you gotta be a hard ass to get it straight.
You just fucking moved and that didn’t fix anything because she went straight to the new school and went straight for the drug kids.
Drop her off at school and pick her ass up.
Can’t leave the house till this shit is straight. Make her like hell and it will get better
Especially once she starts withdrawals from no drugs.
If moms not on board at this point after moving get them both out of your life.
I thought you were the real dad at the beginning of the post, relax fella, that's good news and all the better for you when she appears on a 20 minute ''fake agent'' clip in a few years.If it was up to me she'd have lost that shit 2 years ago. But I'm only the stepdad, so anything I say is just mean....
Not anymore. I'm in Jeffersonville Indiana now.
Damn I am old. Never even considered that.
You can't really do anything as the step dad if you're wife isn't on board
Whats her grand plan at getting her under control if she won't take any of your suggestions?
Mouthy, drugs... constant drama and fighting... fucking kid can't even fight lol
i'll be there tomorrow around 1600, in the locks rather...
Drop this gall off the bridge onto my ship ts, we'll put her to work!
If it was up to me she'd have lost that shit 2 years ago.
But I'm only the stepdad, so anything I say is just mean....
Her and her friend stole a bunch of pills from the friends mom... but these days fuckers are advertising selling drugs on fucking Snapchat...
If I don't speak up, I can't say "told ya so" in the future lol.
Start taking a parenting role and decide for the kid when the kid is making all the wrong decisions.
At this point, sending her to foster care...You can't really do anything as the step dad if you're wife isn't on board
Whats her grand plan at getting her under control if she won't take any of your suggestions?
Any punishment we impose she uses as an excuse to cut herself... I'm just lost with this one.Kick them both out of the fucking house, if the mom isn’t helping she’s part of the problem too.
If it was my step daughter all her shit would be gone, phone computer everything. Only use computer for homework supervised.
Sometimes you gotta be a hard ass to get it straight.
You just fucking moved and that didn’t fix anything because she went straight to the new school and went straight for the drug kids.
Drop her off at school and pick her ass up.
Can’t leave the house till this shit is straight. Make her like hell and it will get better
Especially once she starts withdrawals from no drugs.
If moms not on board at this point after moving get them both out of your life.
I love how you jump to conclusions... you obviously don't me lolYou raise her like a privileged little princess? If so, you get what you deserve.
Ha - I used to live in Ann Arbor. GoBlue!
Cut herself?? Okay so she needs a therapist! ASAP She's either doing it because she's super manipulative or doing it because she's auto-destructive af, either way she needs help.Any punishment we impose she uses as an excuse to cut herself... I'm just lost with this one.
My wife and I have been together for 13 years. Dealing with kids has almost ended us several times. I love my wife, I've tried everything I can. At this point we have an agreement that she deals with this one. All the boys are grown up and out of the house(all 3 have good jobs). But this girl is worse than all the others put together.. I appreciate the reply, but I know how to raise a good person. It's just this girl is fucking crazy and I'm at my witts end with her....Why is it not up to you? You two are the parents.
To me it sounds like it's up to the kid what the kid does and you parents have no say. It's like: "I don't want her to do drugs, I don't want her to be in contact with this person, I don't want her to be on snapchat bla bla". But she is. And you aren't doing anything real about it?
When she points out that you are mean, it's an play on emotions to make you feel bad over your actions and back off, and you fall for it from the sound of it. You have to realize the truly mean thing going on here is you two letting her destroy her life using drugs.
If the kid have a biological dad somewhere, maybe you can help him get custody because it's hardly possible to do worse than your woman and you are at this point.
It seems like you are good at identifying some ways that enables her drug abuse. But then you just let it slide, knowing that she uses snapchat for drugs, how can you not put down the foot and seriously stop it? A kid with issues like these can't have an (unmonitored) phone where she get drugs. She probably shouldn't be allowed to visit that friend who's parents can't keep their drugs safe either.
Start taking a parenting role and decide for the kid when the kid is making all the wrong decisions.
This is weak, if you care for the kid your end goal can't be to eventually say "I told you so". Fix it (somehow) and stop caring for some corny "I told you so" shit.
A little of both. We've had her hospitalized numerous times!!! And it only costs about $20,000 each time...Cut herself?? Okay so she needs a therapist! ASAP She's either doing it because she's super manipulative or doing it because she's auto-destructive af, either way she needs help.
Fuck man, sorry to hear about that. She really needs a psychiatrist, you can't fix this alone.A little of both. We've had her hospitalized numerous times!!! And it only costs about $20,000 each time...
A little of both. We've had her hospitalized numerous times!!! And it only costs about $20,000 each time...