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Oh, Christ. Had no idea the coach was the BF. What a fucking soap opera.
The real reason he was mad at her was because she didn’t do the dishes from 2 nights prior.
Oh, Christ. Had no idea the coach was the BF. What a fucking soap opera.
This coach was spot on. He needed to light a fire under her ass, plus he probably knows how to motivate her. Let's not start with the "female" needs kids gloves BS. That would turn me off from WMMA like no other....
It was a very simple message he was giving her. That isn’t swamping or overwhelming. I honestly have no understanding of what you are complaining about. And he did exactly what you described, after being way too soft for 2 corners, he turned it up and got real with her.
There is a big difference between saying he could have been more effective if he didn't show his frustration and saying he was abusive.
He's mild compared to Julia Budd's cornerman (who's her husband i think)
There is a difference between saying something is “abuse” and “not the right energy”. One is a more objective social standard of morality while the other is a tactical error.
Also, what did the fighter think? You’re the justice truth teller, how about we allow this woman to have some agency and have her own feelings about the situation? Do you think it’s maybe possible that they know each other better than you do?
Besides, do Tate and Bisping have a monopoly on truth? You’re perched on a thin ledge of logic while insulting everyone beneath you.
See.. this is where I disconnect from your generation. You literally use the word “screaming”. At no point did he ever do more than talk to her. A “screaming bitch” no less.Lol, completely bad coach. Fighting is already really stressful, you don't need a retarded screaming at your ear. We had two coaches who made this approach ( trainers of aspen ladd and Carlos Boi) both lost the fight. I am not saying that the coach should not tell what is happening, but screaming like a hysteric bitch? Take it easy.
hurr durr stfu.. there you go, proving my point
There is nothing wrong with telling a fighter the truth and he started out doing that, which I have no issue with.
The turning point for me came after the 4th round, which Ladd ended really well. A smart trainer would have told her that she might still have lost the round but stressed the positive; that she dominates if she does not lay back and let the other girl potshot her.
Instead of looking ahead though, that dumbass was still chewing her up for how passive she was earlier in the round. This is beyond stupid. As Bisping put it: you do not crush a fighter who is struggling with confidence. If you don’t believe me, at least show the intelligence to listen to Bispey and Tate, who unlike you, have been there and done that.
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See.. this is where I disconnect from your generation. You literally use the word “screaming”. At no point did he ever do more than talk to her. A “screaming bitch” no less.
Wow. I’ve been involved in sports all my life. And I know what “screaming” is. I had coaches in junior high school sports that went harder on us in practice.
Thankfully, I’ll only be around for two, or three more “generations”. And I won’t have to see what this kind of attitude has turned men, let alone sports into.
Do you have anything positive you would have said to her?