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I'm not opposed to having kids. In fact I'd like to at some point, but let's slow it down with making that job 1. I'd like a feeling out process with the woman first where I can have some confidence she'd be a good mother before I start chucking babies up in her. They go out with me like 3 or 4 times and decide "he'll do".
Let's be clear on this as well. There is not the same timeline for men and women to have kids. I can still be pretty choosy and could, biologically, fuck around for like 20 more years and still have a family.
If you're not in any rush why are you dating girls that are?
Sounds like you need to go a few years younger. I'm 32, my girls 26 she's not fussed thinking about kids till she's nearing 30 which is fine with me that's probably about when I'd be ready too.