felice wrote this on facebook
I'm sure every one saw this episode of the Ultimate Fighter. The fight did not go my way. I felt I was doing well and I got caught, that's MMA. You win some and you lose some. Thats just the way this sport is and I can live with that. As an athlete and person I always learn from my mistakes. I am not the kind of fighter to make excuses for my loses or take anything away from my opponent. I will say this. I would not be scared of a rematch with Rhanda. I know every one is just seeing the fight for the first time today but it was a few months back and i've moved past it by now and am very ready and focused for my fight on the finale Dec 12.
I guess the part I can't get over the most is the way she acted towards us throughout the show. She's been lucky to this point that most of it did not make it on camera, but anyone who knows me or Carla knows that we wouldn't be mean to someone for no reason. I was nothing but nice to that girl through out the show, until the end when I finally got sick of it and stuck up for myself. Even before the show started taping Rhanda said some nasty comments to me, but I brushed them off and continued to try and give her good energy. I made her a bracelet, gave her advice when she talked with me about issues with her gym and management, I was the first to hug her after she won her fight and made her ginger shots to celebrate after she won.
I'm not sure at what made her want to be a bitch to me, but I tried really hard to be nice to her, I really did. She was always making snide remarks under her breathe, slamming doors anytime Carla, Jessica, Justine or I were in a room, turning the temp up on oven and not telling me so my food would burn... Not to mention what you saw on the show with what she did with the whole practice situation.
I get that some fighters don't mind training with their opponent but most fighters do, and we all took a vote as team to resolve that issue and again Rhanda chose not to respect it or us. Its one thing to train leading up to a fight and its another to be training and going over strategy 2 days before the fight with your opponent in the same room.
Rhanda is a mean soul with a burnt heart. NO sportsmanship, no human emotion for anyone but herself.
Yes this is not a team sport and everyone on the show was there for themselves. But that doesn't mean you have to go out of your way to treat people badly. It says a lot about a person to go out of their way to treat someone poorly who has been nothing but nice to them. Just because you had a " bad life" doesn't give you the excuse to treat others the same. We all have a story. Even the one's who chose not to talk about theirs on the show.
The bottom line is Carla and I tried to respect everyone in the house but by the end we were just sick of trying in vain with some people.
I'm not sorry that I was nice to Rhanda. It's never a bad thing to treat people well and give them the benefit of the doubt. I wish her luck in her career. Until we meet again