Please take as much time as you need.
I have lived my entire life surrounded by "black culture". The point I keep trying to drive home is that your impression of black culture is limited. You seem only familiar with poor and/or ghetto black people and have assumed that the entirety of black culture reflects that of the worst.
Even when you are statistically aware that black America holds socially conservative values you still believe that they don't actually practice them. You've chosen to treat the worst that you've seen as indicative of the whole, instead of treating them like the outliers that they are.
I had a good friend in h.s. He received a Porshce 911 for his 16th birthday. He drove around listening to hip hop music but didn't wear baggy clothes. He went to a nice state school, he was black and lived "black culture". My high school running back wore baggy clothes, didn't come from money and went to Harvard. He was black and lived "black culture".
When the black people you know are from the ghetto and don't know anything else, they don't get to overwrite what the rest of black America is doing with their lives.
Why when someone disagrees with you is it always their view or life view is better or correct and yours is totally wrong.
Jesus man, I said they don't vote like the believe, I never said they don't live like it, I never mentioned anything on how they live. Why do you keep saying this?
All I said is that there are some cultural differences, I didn't even list them until a page ago after KPT asked.
I said there are some societal or cultural differences in CERTAIN AREAS. I brought up the ray rice situation and hitting.
I'm just gonna come out and say it, with you being a lawyer, when was the last time you spent any real time in the ghetto that didn't involve paper work being signed?
You go to the trouble that my view of things is limited, well is your view not limited. I know you do some charitable work or pro bono but that doesn't mean you have the ear of the ghetto.
I've tried to be cool during this back and forth but you keep trying to get me to defend shit I never said.
Sorry man, I'll take my worldview having been in the trailer parks and ghetto more often and longer than you have in the last 20 years. But you keep on telling me how the real world is in the ghetto and trailer parks up their in your lawyer world.
I am going to stop here, because I don't want to inflame the issue anymore, als because you are one of my favorite posters and I don't want to have an unproductive back and forth with you, I'll save that for speakhandsforme and JVS, LOL
TAKE IT EASY MAN.