I completely agree with you. A lot of modern women I've simply been friends with, or even have dated were quite unstable. Whether it stems from a pharmaceutical dependence or a lack of familial leadership growing up, its quite common with many women from the more recent generations.
I'm simply saying, outside the confines of interpersonal relationships, men as a whole are more violent.
Its a large reason why vast societies have been built and destroyed, and why most societies as a whole have evolved to where they're at now.
Ambitious, violent men.